I constantly get upset because it seems like I will never ever feel love?

[Anonymous]

i want to experience that magic everybody's talking about with the butterfly's etc?

[Oliverlogan263]

I know it can be really frustrating to feel like you're missing out on something that seems so important. But try not to get too down on yourself, dude - love will happen when it's meant to. A few thoughts:

- You're still young - don't compare your love life to others'. So many people find "the one" way later than your age.

- Focus on enjoying other parts of life - your hobbies, friends, goals. Love has a way of showing up when you least expect it.

- Put yourself out there - join clubs, try dating apps, socialize. The more you put yourself in a position to meet people, the higher your chances.

- Work on being the best version of yourself. Love yourself first, so that when you do find someone, you'll have confidence to offer an amazing relationship.

- Don't force it or get desperate. People can sense that and it's not attractive. Stay positive - it'll happen naturally at the right time.

- Look for little moments of connection, not just intense butterflies. Every relationship has ups and downs - focus on appreciating the little things.

Chin up, dude! That "magic" could be right around the corner. Just keep putting one foot in front of the other and living your best life. You'll find your person when you least expect it.

[Nikki1989]

It can't happen for everyone. That is not how the world works.

[Asker]

I know it can't happen for everyone. But don't you think it's hurtful when love happens to someone? Then, for others, they spend their whole lives without ever knowing. You could apply this to multiple different similar situations.