Guys, If you are single & playing the field, would you reject one particular girl because she's not as good in bed as another?

[Anonymous]

Or would it be because you have feelings for one of them & not the other. And if it didn't work out, would you go back to the girl you rejected?

[DaveJord]

Ahhhh... tough question. So, if there was a girl I really cared about, and she was not that good in bed compared to another woman... now I would probably not reject her outright. And yes, I would come back to her later if it ended on good terms.

But if there was a girl that I totally liked in bed, but did not like out of bed... then yes, I would reject her after I go what I could out of it. And yes, I would look at other women.

But I have dated some pretty fun and amazing women, but sexually it was just not there for me. Sexual compatibility will change how you feel about a woman. I mean if I totally like her and she is awesome, and then she is good in bed... yeah marriage material.

If she is totally awesome, but bad in bed... she is a place holder and maybe over time something will change. But the passion for the relationship takes a hit and when it does... then girls start to ask questions like this.

[RebelinSteel]

No im not that much a twat. However there is a difference between not as good and not compatible, not everyone is amazing at everything, you have to be realistic.

I would expect her to be able to suck grapefruit up a hose pipe though.

[normalice]

Sexual compatibility is of fundamental importance.