I have failed in all of my attempts in job hunting, love and dating. Does it mean I have done some sins in the past life?

[Anonymous]

[Effably]

You know that saying that if you run into one rude person, that's on them. If run into two, you're unlucky. If everyone is rude, then its not them but you.

Well. The same applies to job hunting but with larger margins. If you have sent 100 applications and gotten nowhere, then you need to look over what you might be doing wrong. Go over your CV. Even it feels awkward have someone help with it. Or even just ask whoever told you they were not interested if they have any tips for what you could change to have a better chance in the future.

Some people will say no. Some will say yes. You only need one yes. So head up. Go for a walk or run. Take a little break. Then try a new angle.

[Asker]

I have tried everything. Nothing is work.

[Effably]

Which means you need to ask for help. Show someone your applications. Get feedback.

Heck. Contact an agency. There are many that get you a job for money. Often with very fair arrangements.

[Asker]

I tried to get a job for money. But agency cheated me. Over the time I lost my confidence and enthusiasm. My life is finished.

[Effably]

Try again. You seem to believe in God. Is it not supposed to be that he puts trials in our life that we can barely handle? Well. This is one of yours in that case. Persevere.

[Asker]

Yes, I believe in god. Yes, I agree god puts trials in our life. How do I handle it without money? My father disowned me for being a loser. Only my mother is sending some money for food. Other than that, I can't expect anything from them. Most of my friends are married and have kids. They all are busy with wife and kids. Wealthy friends are living a lavish lifestyle. Middle class friends have job but they are still struggling. I have stopped hanging out with them. I don't have money to go out, spend and enjoy. Persevere where and how? There are no job opportunities. I am ready to persevere. I was the brightest student of my class. I am a MBA grad. I have never wasted a single day in my life when I was in school and Colleges. I don't want to do dirty jobs.

[ColHathi]

According to my beliefs, maybe that could've had something to do with it? 🤔 Though I don't imagine your past life mistakes would be the only reason. And for the record I wouldn't look at it as some punishment by god, even if your past lives have something to do with your misfortune in your current. Rather that whatever you did in those lives are coming back to bite you in the ass now :p What comes around, goes around. And while I don't believe punishment would ever be a part of our plans when we reincarnate, maybe you having a rough time is somehow part of the plan? It'd certainly be impressive if you could overcome it.

[NetherlandsNar]

No you are just unlucky

[Asker]

It's a painful experience. I am a good guy but why is god punishing me in this life? I haven't done big sins in this life.

[jahaims]

No, it means you are stupid