How can you date if you don’t get results not dating apps and you don’t have good enough social skills to do it offline?

[Anonymous]

Like sometimes I feel like due to this dynamic that I’m gonna be alone forever cause I max out the like on virtually every app every day. I don’t know if I’m that ugly, really bad at taking pictures, something about my profile is really boring

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[Anonymous]

How long have you been using dating apps. It took me a while to get rolling on them. Your pics make a HUGE difference. I changed my pics and the matches I got increased fivefold.

[Asker]

Probably 12 years

[Opinion Owner]

Have you changed up your pics. Are they just of you? Selfies?

[Asker]

I have repeatedly changed my pictures

[Opinion Owner]

Selfies?

[Asker]

Yeah all of them

[Opinion Owner]

That might be your problem. You pictures tell a story. And your pictures aren't telling any story. When you go out with your friends take pictures. When you go to a ballgame take pictures when you go camping take pictures. Etc.
My next bit of advice is erase your entire bio. UNLESS you're looking for a SPECIFIC woman opening your mouth is only going to hurt you. I'm not saying what you got to say isn't worth listening to. I'm just saying women are highly judgmental and have wild imaginations. So it's best to be mysterious. Trust me, anything she makes up about you in her head will be much better than anything you can say.
Next I would recommend not messaging ANY woman first. This you don't have to do. But it'll reduce your rejection. The simple FACT of the matter is the MAJORITY of women on dating apps do not want to date ANY man. You are wasting your time messaging the ones that do not match with you first. I Only message the women who message me first.

[Asker]

Could it be I’m just hideous

[Opinion Owner]

Not likely. I really mean that man. I believed that about myself for too many years. It's a much greater possibility that the right woman just has not seen you in the best light.
Even if a guy is attractive odds are only 10% of women are going to be attracted to him. That's how picky women are ABOUT EVERYTHING. Attraction to a woman is primarily in her head. That's why it doesn't seem to follow any real rhyme or reason. So as a guy the BEST thing you can do is make yourself as marketable as possible. And try not seem desperate. I didn't hit my stride till my late 30's. Ironically the less I cared the more interested the women got. No I'm not player. I just No longer was desperate for thier attention. That's a turnoff for women.

[Asker]

Well honestly I’m getting to the point where I’ll take whatever comes along I no longer have standards