Without using dating apps or websites, how can I find a woman to date?

[straightmax12]

[jennifer_bloom]

You are 21 so you could meet girls at poetry competitions, toastmaster clubs, chess clubs, charity organizations, library book clubs, public cooking classes, guitar events at bars, painting classes, I knew a divorced guy that would join fitness classes at gyms to meet single women, he was the only male in a room of 20 females, I know guys who drink coffee at libraries to meet girls. You could also volunteer at a garden or political campaign to meet girls or you could work as a talent scout for a fashion organization or you could reply to ads online where foreign girls ask for help learning English.

[slatyb]

Join groups that attract women.. Volunteer for a political campaign. Join a group that raises funds to support the arts or some women's cause. Get involved in community theater. Join a swing or salsa meetup group. Find a co-rec sports team.

If you do any of these things, be patient. If you start hitting on the women immediately, you will be made unwelcome. Take the time to get to know people. Do some of the work needed to keep the group functioning. If a woman is interested, she will make it known by giving you attention.

Start learning people's names wherever you go -- restaurants, bars, shops, the library, ... When you are greeting a couple of dozen women by name, you will find that dating is easy.

[AviatorTom]

You can use techniques that people have used for centuries... friends, organizations, approach a woman you find attractive while shopping or walking the dog, ...

[Emiliamazing]

Take a look at the hobbies you enjoy, and become social with them. Not hard :-)

[EmmaMary]

By getting off your lazy bone idled backside and going out to socialise... Simples!

[Jessica405]

Right on! PS. What happened to the U? 😟

[EmmaMary]

@Jessica405

That sadly and very unfortunately is a long story. smh

[EmmaMary]

@Jessica405

I'm so sorry in forgetting to ask how your dear Mother is doing.

[Jessica405]

She's doing fine thanks. Still trouble with fluid. Seems like having got over cancer, there are a lot of doors opening. Free exercise classes. Free swimming at the leisure centre.

[Nikki1989]

Try walking out your front door and meet people, it is not complicated.

[Emanon25]

From school, friends, work, gym … etc.