How do you look for a girlfriend without using dating apps and social media?

[pethouse]

[Anonymous]

Looking for a girlfriend without relying on dating apps and social media is certainly possible. Here are some alternative ways to meet new people and potentially find a girlfriend:

1. Pursue your interests and hobbies: Engage in activities and join communities or clubs related to your interests. This can provide opportunities to meet like-minded people and potentially connect with someone who shares your passions.

2. Attend social events and gatherings: Participate in social events, such as parties, community gatherings, or networking events. These settings allow you to meet new people and strike up conversations in a more organic and natural manner.

3. Volunteer or join community organizations: Volunteering for a cause you care about or joining community organizations can not only make a positive impact but also introduce you to individuals who share similar values and interests.

4. Expand your social circle: Reach out to friends, acquaintances, or colleagues and express your desire to meet new people. They may introduce you to someone who could potentially be a good match.

5. Take part in classes or workshops: Enroll in classes or workshops that align with your interests or skills. This provides an opportunity to meet others who have similar passions and creates a conducive environment for building connections.

6. Ask for referrals: Let your friends, family, or colleagues know that you are open to meeting someone special. They might be aware of someone who could be a potential match and can introduce you.

7. Approach people in everyday life: Strike up conversations with people you encounter in your daily life, such as in coffee shops, bookstores, or while waiting in line. Be genuine, respectful, and confident when starting a conversation.

Remember, the key is to be open, friendly, and approachable. Building connections takes time, so be patient and enjoy the process of meeting new people. It's important to have realistic expectations and be open to various possibilities. Sometimes, genuine connections can happen when you least expect them.

[exitseven]

I had a friend who used to ask out every girl he thought looked interesting. He got shot down a lot but he dated a lot of girls. One night we went in this convenience store because he said there was a girl that worked there he wanted to go out with. We go in the store and the girl (we will call her A) was not there. He asked the girl at the counter if A was working. The girl said that she was not. My friend talked her into giving him A's phone number and he called her on the phone. (this was before cell phones). It turns out there was two girls named A that worked there and he was talking to the other one. Still my friend did not get discouraged, He talked to Other A for a while and after he hung up he said that he was going out with Other A next Saturday,

[Nikki1989]

What? People went on dates without dating apps and social media for 100s of years.

Don't you ever go outside?

[pethouse]

Bruhhh, I literally work all the time, in fact at my main job I actually work outside so yes lol

[Nikki1989]

Then you should have no problem meeting people. I meet new people each and every week.

[pethouse]

I mean I work at a cemetery so most people I meet are dead😐 and at my second job all the people there are old, and when I say old I mean like the younger side is usually in there 50s

[Simslover92]

Bars
Coffee shops
Gym
Bookstore
Grocery store
Etc.

[harry000300]

Where did you find your SO?

[Simslover92]

Library

[Simslover92]

University Library

[harry000300]

Check dm

[slatyb]

I don't. If I were to do that, I would first ask all my friends to see if they might know someone suitable. Then I would find things to do that also attracted single women of the appropriate age.