Does this platform suit your mindset or culture?

[Anonymous]

Okay, so I try to relate to the questions asked here but I always fall short.

Even when I ask questions, I know people want to help but they will never give the right answers because their culture is too different.

I’m from a culture where sex outside of marriage doesn’t happen.

Also cheating is very rare and how men and women behave is different.

so when I ask a question for example, how do I know If a girl likes me etc..

people’s answers here wouldn’t be helpful because our behaviour and mindset is too different.

like If I went on a date (not like your dates when sex would likely happen), It is standard for me to pay for her, it’s not something that would come to mind to pay or not. Etc..

sorry for complaining, just wanted to get it out of my chest before I leave lol

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I also feel like some questions and topics are too explicit

[AviatorTom]

GaG suits my culture and mindset quite well. I enjoy seeing peoples' opinions, whether that be my own country or other countries and cultures around the globe.

[Anonymous]

You know if a person likes you because they keep dating you but the more important thing is do you both want the same type of relationship. Do your non-negotiables clash or mix? You find someone who wants the same type of relationship. That doesn't just mean marriage or serious or long lasting. What are the character traits that define your relationship. What do you both want it to look like exactly. Do u want it full of romance? Affection? Kindness? Religion? kids? dining out?

If that is all the same or in harmony then it'll simply be physical attraction because the rest would be a match regardless if you two are the people u need to be yet or not. You may want a skinny wife and if she wants to be skinny then you should date her. It's less about what people are right now and more about where do they want to go. Where do they really really want to go. Because that's who u are committing too.

1. Do you both want the same type of relationship?
2. Are you both naturally the people who can create that type of relationship with each other?

3. Are you both physically attracted to each other or can u be. Can u see it if the other loss weight or started working out.

People who like you stick around. Unless ur talking about a friend and wondering if they like you. Then you have to ask them. There are signs but there is no way to know for sure. Just ask them out on a date and if they say yes then they must like u

[Asker]

Thanks for the advice.
My question was just an example, I’m not talking to any girl at the moment but thanks for taking the time.

[Opinion Owner]

I would say GAG does not suite my mindset and personal culture. I rarely use it.

[Asker]

So you feel me, what bothers you the most here?

[Opinion Owner]

There is a gender war culture here. In general there is a lot of war here. Everything here is just very shallow. There isn't really anything deep. I've never learned anything here. The site is very top heavy too.

[Asker]

I agree, It’s chaos.
What bothers me the most is that sex is related to every topic be it cheating, dating etc..
And sex isn’t something that has a place in my life at that moment.
I wish people here looked at relationships from a communication perspective and the hidden bumps that comes with it.
I have been in a relationship before and sex wasn’t part of it.
It was deep and beautiful.
People here would think it’s weird but it isn’t where am from.