Girls, Why do women think nowadays that it's creepy if a guy approaches them out of the blue if a guy is really decent and they are decent women too?

[Anonymous]

[laly520]

most of those who approach girls in public without knowing em aren't decent people, n I've had very bad experiences with it just like what my other friends faced

as a girl, I'm not comfy, n I don't feel safe when a stranger (especially a guy who is twice my size) gets close to me out of nowhere, let alone hits on me in a way that's scary, making me feel threatened

such type dont even know how to approach a girl n how to talk to a girl in a decent way n most of the time they r only aiming for sex

[Asker]

I don't mean on the street. I mean at an event, if the guy is not twice your size, doesn't hit on you hardcore, but asks for you Instagram or asks you out.

[laly520]

if not on the street then less horrible n if there r people around then his size won't be an issue
asking in a gentle way is fine n won't get me startled or creeped out
tho I dont use instagram since 2018 n chances of going out with stranger is 0
thats in case I was single

[Anonymous]

Because there are some creepy guys who do it. But it's unfair to judge all men because of that. I hate what politics and social movements in recent years have done to relations between women and men.

[Asker]

That's right. It feels almost as if you are a criminal when you're doing something which has always been so natural