Nice Guy/Male Feminists. Why are they so creepy?

[Gwendoline]

I just remember a lot of these guys from school and from about. They try to be your friend and support women's rights to get you into bed, try to pressure you into dating, sex, doing drugs and alcohol. They feel entitled to sex with you though you aren't ready and basically are stalkers and sexual harassars. Then if you do find a guy you like will try to break you up or get you to cheat with them. Even if you are married and have a child they still come sniffing around like predators.

Came across an old SNL Sketch that reminded me of this.

[FunkyMonkee]

Those are NOT nice guys!!
One example of being a nice guy: I invited a few friends from college over for a swim. They all wanted to know if we could go naked. I said we could. With me, there was 3 guys and one girl. One was her ex-bf, the other was her present boyfriend and I was madly in love with her. I took her up to my room and gave her a bikini of my sisters to wear `til we got out to the pool.
Now, in about 5 minutes, we're all gonna be seeing each other completely naked in the pool so, it wouldn't have mattered if I stayed there and watched her change but, I decided to leave the room to give her privacy.
One of those supposed "nice guys" would've not only stayed to watch her but would've probably shot video and even tried to fondle her or even fuck her!

[Gwendoline]

Sounds like she wanted you to make a move. She's that type with 3 guys running after her

[FunkyMonkee]

No, I don't think she would've liked that. i already told her flat out how I feel about her and she never made a move on that. I think, if she would've wanted me, she would've shown it and made a move on me, Especially after I asked her to marry me. Besides, she was 18; 10 years younger than me. She still is, come to think of it!

[Gwendoline]

If she put herself in that postion she wanted you to make a move in her, even if she maybe didn't want you or was willing to do anything, if only for validation

[FunkyMonkee]

I would've rather had her trust than to take a chance and blow that trust.

[Anonymous]

they have nothing to offer except pandering to the worst aspects of women's feelings

they won't pander about family creation or how to create a better world for future generations. they only pander about baby deletion and promiscuity

then they wanna cry on TikTok about Kamala losing the election to sound relatable or maybe they do feel like that but either way it's a turn off to many women even feminist women

what's ironic is that liberal women and conservative women want conservative women just like liberal men and conservative men want conservative women

the 4B movement "sex" strike from liberal women is only gonna hurt liberal men in the long run and ultimately liberal women themselves when these liberal men wake up into becoming conservative

[Opinion Owner]

you'll find a lot of feminist men on this site

[GOLDFISH_smile]

Lol yeah those types are just a different kind of players. They have different strategy, but play the same stupid games. I stay away from all those types.

My husband is nice, but he is not a "nice guy." He's just actually a nice/kind person. He's feminist, but not a "male feminist." He just has strong morals. It's kinda dumb how the labels have changed so much to mean completely different than those words by themselves would mean.

[mandyfire98]

And there's your issue with "nice guys"
100 percent.

That's what it's really about.

True nice guys don't have to keep saying they're nice. It's just who they are.

The guy's who say "why doesn't she go for a nice guy like me instead of the bad guy"
Are the guys that pretend to be nice just to get sex.

They hold the door for you and instantly expect pussy.

[LiamJHayden]

Because they are fake and are really only trying to manipulate women. The lady's intution picks up on it as sees it as creepy.

[mandyfire98]

Perfect comment. Nobody is topping this. ☝️

[Gwendoline]

Absolutely right

[ErzebethBathory]

They're not, usually. If they are, they're more likely to be incels or 'alphas'(😆) posing as feminists because they think that they'll get laid that way. Men who actually see women as human beings are feminists, whether they identify themselves as such or not. They are as worthy of respect as we are.

[Christian_Cartier]

I treat women like human beings, but i am no feminist. No way.
Feminism = selfishness. Selfishness divides the genders.

[WestofNowhere]

It's because they're actors. They're playing a part to try and get what they want. They have a script they run. They're not genuine. It's all fakery. Women know this. Women are very guarded with this shit. They know when guys are just trying to fuck them.

[Vegasrunner]

in my opinion it's tough for women to except that they aren't special because of this it hurts doubly when men who they believe they respect, end up only wanting them for the same reason all men want women.

[Gwendoline]

But we don't respect them anymore than a mutt humping our leg

[Vegasrunner]

@gwendoline Nah if that was true women wouldn't be caught up in the fairytale of marriage and commitment.

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

Welcome to the concept of advertisement?

Though you're a bit late at the party. From what I remember, it is taught at school, starting at 14yo I think? Ofc it's also useful to have parents teaching what advertisement is.

And the ramifications throughout the entire society, politics, religion, interpersonal relations... Everything relates to whether or not we understand the concept of advertisement and how to counter it.

[worldscolide]

Because the vast majority of them falsely believe that being a male feminist will get him laid. When in reality they are usually the kinds of men who commit abuse and rape and the like.

It's why feminists like traditional men, though most traditional men wany nothing to do with them.

[Gwendoline]

This is very true.

[slatyb]

Because they aren't really nice. Any man who says that he is nice isn't. Truly nice people don't tell others they are nice. They just are.

[Bricealan]

@gwendoline I guess I am lucky. I don't know any men like that?

[WhitneySnow]

The fake ones are awful but the ones who are sincere are pretty cool

[Anonymous]

LOL! They're the WORST! It's SUCH a pathetic mating strategy. It DOES work sometimes, but my GOD is it pathetic.

[Anonymous]

I would not describe them as being nice; they are the worst.

[Dongie]

They are part of the liberal left. That's why!

Freakshows!!

[debtfree_oneyear]

The two are not the same. None of the photos you showed represent me and I'm a nice guy.

[beefcakebradybatson]

As opposed to dudes such as I who'll treat a woman like a lady before laying the Brady on her !!!

[Gwendoline]

Brady?

[beefcakebradybatson]

Use your imagination, Gwendoline !!!11

[Gwendoline]

Like throwing a football?

[beefcakebradybatson]

Like giving her the love bat !!!

[Gwendoline]

Cricket?

[beefcakebradybatson]

Ladsteak, lady !!!

[Sevenpointfive]

a lot of average girls are incredibly weird

[Gwendoline]

I wish I was average. I'm 4ft10

[Sevenpointfive]

that is small but it's not weird. you aren't even classified as a dwarf yet

[Gwendoline]

4ft10 is clasfied as a dwarf but I'm more of a midget. That is I don't have a medical condition I'm just short.

[Sevenpointfive]

oh ok. a mental midget. i think i've met some

[Anonymous]

Thanks for sharing the latest chapter in your novel, "Things that never happen in the real world". Reading your fiction is always entertaining. Keep up the good work.

[Anonymous]

They are unattractive to women so they have to weasel their way in somehow.

[RedInnocent69]

No different than conservatives that support “the working class” and right to work… 🙄

[Gwendoline]

Most Conservatives are working class. Also who is more conservative than Christians, Hispanics, Muslims and black Christians?

[RedInnocent69]

Yes, well, pretending to be something is not the same as being the thing

[Astarlessnightsky]

Those aren't nice guys.

[Lucy68]

I avoid male feminist like the plague

[Gwendoline]

Same.