Why is it always men who act creepy and predatory around woman?

[Anonymous]

[Bricealan]

My woman friend and I have discussed what you have described as 'creepy' and 'predatory' as it relates to men and their behavior around women.

My woman friend is a "lady' in public and is very attractive, and has a stunning figure, BUT she conducts herself as a lady, and DRESSED like a lady, and she tells me that men, in general treat her as a "lady' in turn.

I have observed women in public, dress and conduct themselves in a way as to attract wanted attention from the men around them, and my friend said the same thing, and then those same women 'feign' being offended by the alleged 'unwanted attention'

i. e. a woman 'friend' in my YOGA class approached me in a store, tapped me on the shoulder, and when I turned, she put out her arms and hugged me warmly. Nothing wrong with that, of course... The problem is that she is very large breasted, and was wearing a bra, that was not nearly a bra to cover her 'married' breasts in public, and was only held in place by Spaghetti Straps.

I am, and always have been a gentleman around women anywhere in public, and never respond to that kind of titillating dress and behavior.

I for one, am not one of those that you describe as "'always men, who act creepy and predatory around women"

That is quite a damning generality about men being creepy and predatory

Just saying... maybe you should reconsider what you allege

[jahaims]

It's harder to be a creep as a female as they aren't a threat obviously

[Eunhae]

A woman can definitely be a threat lol how couldn’t they be?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Because men are taught to be inherently predatory when approaching women for sex.

[Nikki1989]

Because many are creepy and predatory.

Poor upbringings maybe.

[Anonymous]

Creepy how? A lot of times what you women perceive as creepy is a man who is awkward, especially if he likes you. Most men are like that. If he doesn’t have experience w women he may come off as creepy cause he doesn’t know what to do, what to say or how to act. Sure there are some dudes who are just straight creeps. But there are a lot of men who are trying to be vulnerable by asking you out, shoot his shot, but he doesn’t know how to. So to you this comes off as creepy. It’s also creepy to most women when it comes from a man she doesn’t find attractive. If it’s some Chad or Tyrone as the saying goes, she’s willing to let it slide. At the same time a major majority of women have never had to ask a man out. It’s always the man’s job according to women to pursue them. So they’ve never had to experience the awkwardness of asking a man out. Imagine if women were expected to ask men out. Most women can’t even communicate about what they want, they give hints. But women are supposedly better at communicating than men.

[OneViewpoint]

I don't know about that. Women can be pretty creepy and predatory towards other women from what I've observed.

• Jealousy.
• Gossip.
• Backstabbing.
• Stealing a man.
• Sabotaging a relationship.
• Competing for attention.
• Lying to each other.

[ohsheeT]

No i have had to ask a couple of girls to stop touching me. It's happen to me 3 times but only 2 times were really bad and I honestly got to look at it when you hear about a guy touching a girl and she says stop what she has to go through.
But it's fucked up. I mean, I don't get angry.
And I started getting p***** off.

And if you knew me, you know I'm not that person, but when you tell somebody to stop and they keep going and going, get you pretty pissed. Off

[Anonymous]

It's not. I had a girl who could be described as both those things toward me. Luckily, I think she is very cute.

[seeyounexttuesday]

You only consider it creepy because you find the guy unattractive.

[slatyb]

Testosterone.

[ChicoFromThe305]

🤔🤔🤔

[In_Trance]

You can't generalize