Hi guys I need your opinion on this female friend?

[Anonymous]

I know the answer might be a little obvious so in all honesty I’m just looking for reassurance to what I already think before I talk to her

I met this girl in collage 2 weeks ago and we got close fairly quick, we added each other on snapchat and chat every 1/2 days, we sit next to each other in class every time.

I don’t fancy this girl because I’m not looking for a relationship right now, but I feel like she may be into me.

She opens up to me about everything in her personal life and has told me stuff like “I feel like you’re the only person I can talk to” after only 2 weeks.

She constantly asks me my opinion on how woman in the street look, and I’ve even noticed she tries to do little things to get reactions out of me (jealousy). There’s been 2 times she’s told me that people are gonna think we’re in a relationship whilst walking in the street.

She sent me a message the other night saying “you doing something tonight?” To which I responded with a boring “no”

Even stupid little stuff like “how can I ever find love again” after talking about her ex.


I don’t know whether to confront the girl about this because I really don’t want a relationship as I’ve got out of one 4 months prior. The only thing that makes me think otherwise to my suspicion is her lack of responding to messages quickly which can sometime even take a day.

There’s other stuff, but based off what I said am I thinking wrong? And how can I show this girl that I’m not into her in a kind way? I don’t want to hurt her feelings but I’ve never really had to kindly reject someone.

Maybe I’m all wrong on this

[Iron_Man]

You’re gonna have to tell her the truth like right now because you’re gonna lead her on and she’s gonna get feelings for you and you’re gonna break her heart. Don’t do this to this girl

[Asker]

Do you think everything I’ve said here is enough for me to tell her though? There’s other stuff too, but that’s the main stuff.
I did leave out the fact that, yesterday I sat next to a girl and a guy, she sat away from me and has kinda given me silent treatment, took 24 hours to respond to my “are we good” text

Thanks for responding quick by the way

[Iron_Man]

Leave it all out on the table. Don’t hold anything back discuss everything.

[Asker]

Ok I will thanks, I just don’t want to maybe have the whole idea wrong and she be confused when I speak to her. Maybe it’s more than enough

[Iron_Man]

Talk to her slowly break it down to her your likes your dislikes put everything together in one package if you have to repeat yourself, so she’ll understand it then do it