Guys, what is your view of this girl?

[jennifer_bloom]

I used to know a girl who would always defend a proven thief and the thief stole things and asked strangers for money. She defended the thief because the thief was disabled and her brother was also disabled and if I said there was evidence the thief stole things she would slander me by suggesting I was a liar, the girl who defended thieves dated a guy who used her for money and advantages and pretended to want marriage and her fake fiancé would constantly postpone their wedding date and I wonder if it’s her personality that made her date him, that she could not find a decent guy who respected her.

[ZackBan]

I really despise the kind of people who are unable to see reason when it's right in front of them.
You bring them evidence and well made arguments regarding any topic, and all they can answer with is "you're lying".
Simply assuming someone is lying is not winning an argument it's being childish and stubborn and generally lead you to make shitty life decisions. Just like this girl.

[dreamstar72]

I wonder how well did you really know this girl? She could have been a nice (better) thief herself. As they say “birds of a feather flock together”. So this friend could be protecting her own group. As for the her boyfriend it could be her stretching her stories for sympathy.
My view is to distance yourself from this lying cheat FOREVER.

[crossdressingrihno]

I'm going to say something that's going to sound very cold but that's because to answer this question with honesty I need to give a cold answer.

She's defending a thief and and causing people issues.

Her boyfriend doesn't respect her and honestly if she's defending thieves and causing issues then she really isn't earning any respect.

It said her boyfriend is doing her like this and I'll admit that's bad and she has my sympathies but she also doesn't seem like she's trying to help herself at all so there's no real point in you worrying about it because if she won't help herself then you won't really fix anything by worrying about her.

At this point you may as well just worry about the thief and and respond to the slender accordingly

[jim_moriarty]

I would say HUGE Red flag. I would stay away from people who defend thiefs and cheaters. If my girlfriend ever defend a cheater I would end the relationship that day itself because its a sign that she will do the same thing to me and somehow justify her actions. Stay away from thiefs, cheaters, narcissists. When you see a red flag, don't stay , don't waste time correcting them, just run away

[Yourservicemam]

She is a very lost person
Sad to say the least…
Sounds like she doesn’t know any other way in life …
She needs to remove herself from that situation

[Sabretooth]

Trouble who will find more trouble than she can handle.

[Massageman]

That is certainly one explanation of "why", and certainly enough to question why she would still be in your life experience.

[jennifer_bloom]

She would constantly initiate contact with me cause she did not have other friends with decent morals

[Massageman]

maybe it's a subconscious cry for (moral) help?

[jennifer_bloom]

She probably needed help but was a toxic friend and possibly dangerous so I cut her out of my life.

[Massageman]

Yes- we are first called on to guard our OWN hearts. Prov 4:23-24.

[Baredog69]

Well I don't necessarily believe in karma but I would definitely have to say got you on that one

[Friendlybro79]

I'd stay away from people like that.

[zagor]

Maybe she's just not very bright.