What do you think he meant?

[Ujekopa]

Why doesn't a guy who likes me text me? The first message is always from me, but I don't text him every day like you think. Months and weeks go by after we talk, I text him with excuses like that, and every time we text, we talk like lovers, but he doesn't text me first, why do you think?

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[SallyTho87]

He isn't interested in you enough to reach out first, or even to want to initiate any conversation with you for a prolonged period of time.
Don't waste your time on this guy. He is not interested. When you reach out he is probably happy he is getting the attention from you, and it is an ego boost to him, having girls contact him, especially if there are multiple. He engages in convo with you to keep you entertained and focused on him, and once the chat is done he basically forgets about you until the next time you text him.

He's not worth the effort, and is not reciprocating any initiation or responsibility of inviting you into a conversation, simply because he does not want to.
Find someone else who WANTS to talk with you and connect, where months do not go by without any presence of him in your life until you reach out. That isn't fair to give your energy to someone who takes it for granted like this guy is doing.

[Abbycado]

Means he doesn’t like to text but since you do, he does when you send a message out of courtesy.

[Peuples_Francs]

I'm not the type who texts first usually, unless I've got something really interesting to share or ask about. It's not a big deal or anything, it's just how I am. I guess some people just aren't into texting much. I usually prefer catching up face-to-face or having a phone call, so it's possible that this is the same for your friend. I think that you should stay positive, and not think that he has someone else on the side.

[Ujekopa]

Yes, it can. He doesn't write to me, but when we talk, we talk like lovers, the other day he said to me I want to see you

[DarkLegacy]

Some men like the woman to initiate but it could mean he is just humouring you and is not interested. If months go by without either of you texting then he is not that into you.

[Ujekopa]

I'll always write it, and I'll write it once

[Nikki1989]

Have you not heard of talking? You have his number, so why are you wasting your time with texting?

[Anonymous]

He probably has a lot of woman in his life. He doesn't sound needy.