What did he mean by what he said?

[Anonymous]

I asked him if we really online half dated he said no it was a setup by mistake, what did he mean by what he said? Another topic he asked me out to be his girlfriend on text then I said yes it lasted short period of time I ended it we did not go on dates, we weren’t seeing each other so it didn’t count as actually dating he still pretends that I’m his girlfriend causes me trouble

[Guy13]

There’s nothing real as it relates to dating online. I enjoy speaking and the interchange but calling this dating

[Asker]

To me it wasn’t really Dating felt more like a trick to make me do something

[Guy13]

That's a great summary... Once I felt that ONCE-that was it for me !! I do not believe in doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result.

[Iron_Man]

Very strange get clarification on exactly what he’s talking about

[Asker]

I can’t because he blocked me after I told him to stop pretending to date me he won’t. I’m going into same group program as him next year me and him online dated I didn’t meet up with him he said the online dating thing was a setup. I searched up what setup means has two different meanings

[Iron_Man]

How long have you talk to this guy? Maybe you don’t have any attachments maybe it’s best for you to move on

[Asker]

3 years, I cyber dumped him, it’s my friend ex he broke my trust was being jealous and dishonest I got trust issues so after he blocked me on instagram I left him a voice message on contact number saying I don’t want be friends anymore to help me move on. He said I don’t count as his ex that his pretending to date me lying about me being his girlfriend which made me so uncomfortable. I’m going though systems abuse family violence with one of my ex’s I don’t think dating is a good idea for me. 😞

[Iron_Man]

Just reach out to the guy find a way to find him you’ve known him for quite a while

[Asker]

Me and him both are going be in same ndis program again next year I heard he was crying over the arguments what do you mean by find a way to find him?

[Asker]

Yes I have known him for a while. I have meet him in real life to

[Iron_Man]

Oh, I thought you lost contact just call the guy. It should be very simple.

[Asker]

He blocked me on instagram because his been bad mouthing me so I sent him a voice message on his number saying his been lying about being taken by me I told him to stop trying turn a friend against me that I don’t want be his friend anymore because he broke my trust I told him he needs to grow up he didn’t say anything just ignored it I don’t know if he blocked my number he didn’t like that I said his been dishonest lately as he admitted to me that his a bad liar

[Iron_Man]

Call him back again work it out

[Asker]

I’d of but he stopped talking to me on 13th of December

[Asker]

He said to my friend that his unhappy with me

[Iron_Man]

You have to keep trying

[Asker]

11th of December*. I didn’t bother as 2 years ago somebody published him on instagram as he hit on a 14-15 year old when he was 19 and I saw he had added 13 year olds other underage girls 13* his 21.. he was saying to me people calling him pedophile he wishes they would leave him alone

[Iron_Man]

I didn’t know all this just go wrap it up hopefully he didn’t meet these girls in person.

[Asker]

Yeah I don’t know what his really doing..

[Iron_Man]

Go ahead and wrap it. I’ll be done with it.

[Asker]

I searched him up on google I see he has no criminal record..

[Iron_Man]

I mean you be done with it

[Asker]

Yeah I don’t want know him anymore.. 😳

[Iron_Man]

Sorry about that try to find a guy from church

[Asker]

That is okay I was talking to my guy friend whom has a broken heart… that I stopped seeing he left me on seen a week ago hasn’t blocked me has my number has me on social media my friend and him don’t get along she still in love with him while having a boyfriend she use date one of my ex’s Before we become friends he lied to my face last year he only lied about not bullying my old friend he wasn’t happy that I know he doesn’t add minors. Should I see how things go with him?

[Iron_Man]

I don’t know you’re telling me all these weird things

[Asker]

What do you think about these two guys?

[Iron_Man]

I think you should start over and find a guy from church start new

[Asker]

Someone new

[Iron_Man]

Yeah fresh start real good church people

[Asker]

I think being single is a good idea as I don’t know how trust men another topic I’m experiencing a lot of heavy stuff right now I got impersonated on Snapchat months ago it’s still effecting my life 😞 somebody set me up wrote to my ex as me.. made me look bad I think it was him that did that.. he keeps trying get a restraining order against me making false claims against me.

[Iron_Man]

That’s bad I hope you’re passed that now.

[Asker]

He stopped the impersonation his now gotten a temporary order against me I haven’t been served with it yet as I use have a temporary order against him doesn’t make me guilty of anything he tried to make it look like I had broken my promise to the court that backfired on him, he doesn’t have solid evidence with all the claims his making against me. He keeps accusing me of doing fake accounts when I’m not the lawyer told me this will all end in 5 months time that a duty lawyer is going help me respond back to it say not true. :(

[Iron_Man]

Wait a min you talked about a restraining order a long time ago didn’t you

[Asker]

That was me.. I ended up letting it all go than now his trying get one on me

[Iron_Man]

Yeah I thought so I now remember this

[Iron_Man]

Let it go

[Asker]

I let it go His taking me to court… so it’s him that needs let it go..

[Asker]

Now :)

[Iron_Man]

Yeah

[Asker]

Do I have unfinished business going on

[Iron_Man]

No this will never end you're telling me this like what a year ago

[Asker]

Been going to court since march… been experiencing legal abuse since then feels like unfinished business.. feels like the never ending story

[Iron_Man]

Just stay away from the guy if he's bothering you then get a lawyer

[Iron_Man]

If you can't afford a lawyer try a free pro bono

[Asker]

I finally got a lawyer to help me respond back to his evidence to argue against the order as his trying get a restraining order against me when I don’t even go near him/ I don’t contact him

[Iron_Man]

Good for you

[Asker]

Yeah :-/ any man would get frustrated with my issue

[Iron_Man]

I know

[Teriyaki70]

He's not interested

[Avicenna]

Only he knows