Why guys always pull away from me after the second date?

[Anonymous]

They’re obsessed with me before we met or after the first date, but they started to pull back after the second date.
They still talk to me but a lot less. It happened to me many times. They don’t try or ask me out anymore.
FYI i didn’t say or do anything weird. I acted exactly the same as my first date….

[exitseven]

I don't know. You seem very nice and I imagine you are presentable. Maybe you are rude to people or show no respect for the wait staff in a restaurant. There a a few things that would make me avoid a second date.

[TommyMountainFigure]

Can you not ask for feedback from the guys who won't go out on a third date with you?

[Asker]

You’re right i should ask next time!

[TommyMountainFigure]

I figured they may of at least be SOME use to you :D

[Asker]

LOL good point. Well, those didn’t ask me for the third dates were all introverts. It was impossible to ask them for the reason since they refuse to communicate

[TommyMountainFigure]

That's interesting you say that. Were they introverted on the first date too, or do you intimidate them into a shell? We could be getting somewhere. Methinks you're scaring them away by something you're doing.. << Is highly intrigued now. :))

[sheikalana]

To you it may seem you didn't do anything weird but maybe you're not fully aware. Something in you may have given them the ick.

[ErenBaba]

You may be ugly or boring to talk to

[Asker]

Guys tell me im pretty and fun all the time…

[ErenBaba]

Do you have sex on the first date?

[Asker]

Never

[ErenBaba]

They might be lying about you being pretty and fun. People may be trying to get rid of you without hurting you

[Asker]

No i am really pretty lol someone literally told me “people would kill to look like you”

No other reasons you can think of?