When should we give up?

[Anonymous]

If u know the people u like is liking someone else. Should u give up at this point, or as long as they are not couple yet, you still can try and maybe have the chance?

[OlderAndWiser]

If you are attracted to someone who is focusing on someone else at present, you should not pursue them now. That doesn't mean you give up, because six months from now, they may be unattached and available. In the meanwhile, go meet someone else. Maybe the guy you think is Mr. Right is actually only Mr. 65% Right and there is someone else even better. . . and available now!

[OlderAndWiser]

Thanks for MHO!

[TommyMountainFigure]

You like this person, but they like someone else.. That someone else, do they like them or is there a further chain where they like someone else too?

[Asker]

That girl like him back. But when i ask why are they not officially together yet if thats the case, then he suddenly say because he think their situation is not deep enough yet and so many reasons

[TommyMountainFigure]

That sounds to me like he is waiting for someone else to come along.

Proof? A hypothetical question for you..

If you like someone, and that someone asked you out, what do you say? You'd say 'yes' right? And by saying no, it simply means you aren't interested or you aren't sure about them.

[Asker]

But he didn't say no to her as well. Thats the confusing part. So should i just assume neither of us he is deeply interested in hence explain our situation now?

[TommyMountainFigure]

I would say yes, but it matters if he's indecisive in general or not!

[Anonymous]

I mean if you go for a guy and he really likes someone else he's going to eventually want to be with her during you guys going out or when you break up... so I say move on

[sheikalana]

You should give up and move on the moment you realize the person you like is not into you or is not available.

[mrkdvsn]

You still can try...

[Anonymous]

Go for it