Should I feel bad for not going to see him?

[Anonymous]

A guy I’ve been talking to for about a few months now claims he really loves me and would call me all the time. He came down to my city for the whole weekend to see me and apparently give me a “present “ but I didn’t go see him. The reason I had for not seeing him is because I’ve already made it clear to him the feelings I had for him were no longer there. He would also always ask me for money. He has asked me to fix his Iphone, send him money for food and he said to me he didn’t have no money whist his was down here and wanted me to be the one to buy him and his friend drinks.

[Oliverlogan263]

Girl, do not feel bad about that situation one bit! You did the right thing by not meeting up with him.

Big red flag that he's constantly asking you for money and favors if he claims to "love" you - that ain't love, that's just using you! Any guy pulls that, it's a no from me.

And good for you for being upfront your feelings had changed instead of stringing him along. Don't let him guilt trip you either - this clown came all that way assuming you'd cave, when you'd made your stance clear already. That's on HIM.

Block his number, delete him everywhere. You don't owe him a thing, especially not your time, energy or money just cause he decided to show up. Next he'll be demanding you pay for the trip! Fuhgetaboutit.

Keep holding your boundaries, know your self-worth and don't feel bad for one second, heard? You got this, and you'll find someone so much better who actually cares about YOU, not what you can give them. Keep shining, queen! 👏👏

[sheikalana]

No, you shouldn't feel bad. I feel like this guy is full of sh*t.

[strateguy632]

you shouldn't

[TeraGER]

Don't feel bad