I have given up on a 7 year situationship. We was never together; but we was always more then friends. I felt exhausted the past few months, I put so much energy and time into him. He would let me down more times than not. I felt like I was wishing away weeks just to see him/ speak with him. (We are longggggg distance) although I love him, I felt I had to leave the situation as it wasn’t healthy. I recently became pregnant and I felt he left me to deal with the aftermath, he failed to communicate like an adult and just ghosted me for a few weeks. I eventually got an abortion with no help from him and it wasn’t until after that he stated he wanted the baby, and if he knew I wanted him there etc he would have. I feel he won’t ever change and I will never mean anything to him. I don’t feel valued and my time doesn’t feel appreciated. I have ceased all communication and left without any reason given. I’m heart broken, I know he cares about me in some way, we have been close friends since high school, but I will just never be enough. I guess the only closure I’m looking for is someone to tell me he won’t forget me and I did mean something, even though I won’t allow us to ever friends again, I just need to know that it wasn’t all for nothing to be able to fully move on and let go. Would a man continue a close relationship (talking everyday) for over 7 years. Meeting up here and there and of course sex. He even got a tattoo of my portrait, I can’t believe it was all for nothing.
Will he miss me?
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Does he miss you? Yes. For sure. Did he want that baby? No. Else he would have told you before you pop the pill. Still he delayed his response or made it sound a plan is coz he wants you.
The issue is both of you know you both love and want each other but scared to commit either due to past trauma/ I healed childhood issues or attachment style.
I totally support your decision to stay away as it is too much for you to handle and you choose what you found as the best option.
It is up to him to come change his ways.
7 years for situautionship?
Lol it's too long girl but i always belive people will treat you the way you want to get treated..7yrs is too long.
Yes it has been complicated. We live in different countries, and have seen/ been in relationships with other people over the 7 years.
But have always had this going on in the background
So you both are eachothers backup plan 😂
Well that’s one way of looking at it lol. I’ve always preferred the view that it doesn’t seem to work with anyone else becus we always have this thing between us and always end up back with each other in some way. But I guess looking at it from a negetive angel would help me move on 😔😔
Aww such a darling you're 😘
Move on. Move on. Move on sweetheart. And i know it's easy to say but very difficult to move on. But it's good for you.