Will he miss me more if I completely disappear from his life? Like I mean completely? No contact blocking him from social media everything?

[Anonymous]

Will it make him miss me more? Or will it make it easier for him to forget about me? Won't the curiosity keep me on his mind?

[SoundHDᴠᴇʀɪꜰɪᴇᴅ]

Make him miss you more cause there will be a permanent scar in his brain remembering how you ghosted him. If you speak it out he will able to prepare himself and make himself feel better.

[redlif3]

It sounds more like you have him on your mind. even though he has you on his.

[Asker]

I definitely still think about him. I took him off social media for my own sanity. But I do hope it makes him miss me. I'm not gonna lie

[redlif3]

Awe. What bone head thing did he do?

[jgalloway96]

don't delete him, believe me I thought it worked like that too. I deleted my ex for a year and ultimately she moved on, but we did talk a year later and unblocked her.. but we had both moved on already

[Seppel]

it will make it easyier to forget you

[superdouch]

both

[superdouch]

missing my ex hurt so bad, worse when she was completely gone
but when she was completely gone I could also go about my life better

Just put it like this:
hurts worse but less frequently when she's gone completely
hurts less but more often when she's there

[Asker]

Thats a really good statement and so true!!! Ultimately I'd like him to miss me enough to reach out to me. I still have feelings but not as strong. But I would like him to miss me enough that he contacts me. That isn't why I cut off contact though. I did it for myself. I couldn't stand seeing him every time I turned my phone on.

[superdouch]

yeah contradictory yearnings, i feel you. Sucks ass to be honest lol

*hugz*. feel better soon