Does giving a guy space really help will he miss me?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend asked for space but also broke up with and he says if we meant to be we will find our way back together that he still loves me and Wants to be with me, I am hoping giving him space will help him miss me and realise what he is losing, please tell me if its helped for you? 💔

[mick05]

Dont call it "giving him space"

Giving him space in this instance would mean you are waiting for him to come back which he is not with what he said and the way he said it. Honestly a bit of a c*nt move what he said to you tbh that is really bad of him.

Instead you call it your chance to find yourself and explore the world. Go talk to some other guys (there is heaps out there) and your girlfriends. Forget this one for good.

It sounds like he is literally just trying to use you as a backup now and keep you at arms reach if he needs anything in-between girls. This is very toxic behaviour, i don't know if he is meaning to do this what I say but that is what will happen. I would be getting rid of this one for good, stay friends chat every now and then. He will miss you, fuck taking him back unless he puts in some true effort.

[NarutoUzumaki007]

He is fucking with you and he doesn't like you. Wanting space and breaking up are two entirely different things .

You can be in a relationship and get your space. From my perspective it looks like he doesn't want space , he wants to try his luck with other girls and bang other girls and then if you are available he will get back with you.

[Asker]

It also doesn't make sense to me, first he wanted space then broke up with me, and made me promises that this is not to go out or get with girls that he is trying to focus on himself so had to leave me, and is giving me hope that we will get back together, he says he can't do the relationship right now💔

Had the worst weekend so far and week had to watch him go out all weekend not caring about me, he lives under me renting place from my dad with a roommate so it's very hard still having him here its holding me back from moving on and I still hear him and stuff, it's taking a toll on me

[NarutoUzumaki007]

I have had friends be there where they wanted to improve their career and life first , needed to study for exams etc but they didn't entirely cut out their partner from their life. They discussed it with their partner , explained them their situation and agreed to limit their time together.

Like if they will now talk to each other at night only ( the rest of the day he wants to study or do his job ) , or they will only go date once a week , etc etc.

This is what it means to give space to your partner. If you are breaking up with your partner , that just means you never really cared about them enough and are a loser who can't compromise a little and balance both your career/life and love

[Asker]

You right there is no excuse to just up and leave me like I never meant anything and like I don't mean enough to him to fight for me, I have fought for him all week and weekend so far so 7 days so far I have and he is showing no interest 💔he left me by myself all weekend while he went out with friends, and he stays right downstairs so can easily see me if he wanted to but he chose to leave me aside 💔 how can he says he loves me then? 💔 And how does a person lose love so fast after 2 years? He Said I am a good woman that he knows he won't find some one like me again and that I am most loyal woman he ever known, so if I am so good why is he throwing it away it hurts honestly I done so much for him and the relationship and now he is willing to lose it for a stupid feeling that he had feeling he needs to this wtf💔💔💔💔💔

[Asker]

Do you think he will regret losing me eventually if he knows I am a good woman and knows he won't find anyone like me again? 💔

[MsShy87]

No. What will help is stop thinking about him. I know it's hard but focus on yourself and healing from the break up. Work out, get a makeover, take a class, make some kind of positive change that will improve yourself, and when you're ready, get back in to the dating world. Once you're feeling confident again and have moved on, watch him try to come crawling back in to your life after that. I'm not kidding. It works every time, at least that's when exes have tried to come back to me.

[VanityFair748]

I think he's just using you as a plan b. Like if he feels alone, he'll know that you'll be waiting for him. Cut him off. My advice will be, not to contact him anymore. He seems really toxic person.

[spartan55]

You're idea that he will "realize what he is missing" is fairy tale shit. "Space" means he wants to be with other girls. Sounds like he was trying to let you down easy.

[Asker]

Why would he lie to me and say I am the only woman he wants and not talking to girls and stuff? He said that's the last thing on his mind, how do I ask him straight?

[missangelavoss]

He’s tryna break up with you to sleep or be with a new bitch trust me going on a break or needing space never fucking works

[sheikalana]

He will either miss you or forget about you and move on if he doesn't have real feelings towards you.

[wankiam]

you do know when a guy says he needs space what he is really saying is he needs other girls right?

[Anonymous]

Happened to me once. We never came back together. Also happened to some friends of me and same result. So a “break” means a break up in my experience

[Asker]

So he just doesn't clearly love me enough if he wants this? He just left me saying he needs to focus on himself and his journey so had to elimanate me out his life, I feel broken, how can he give me hope then and also make remarks of he won't speak to other woman to prove he still loves me and only wants me? He made me promises and then still says I don't expect you wait for me...

[Opinion Owner]

Words don’t matter. Actions do. He expects you to not wait for him which means he’s fine with you ending up with someone else. Girl it’s a breakup!

[Asker]

And then he says even if I find some one else he will still try and come back for me💔that it will hurt him to see me with someone else, it doesn't make sense why leave me then if he loves me? 💔. I don't know if his friend is part of the reason he has Wanted him to leave me and his mom and sister talk stuff into his head too, he seemed to love me so much after 2 years and did a lot to show me he loves me and now I have to beg for us to just work things out, I don't understand, and he lives here under me he is renting place from my dad with a roommate who doesn't want him with me so it's very difficult still having him here I can't move on like this it's taking a toll on me...

[Anonymous]

Stop hoping and move one.
This guy's not serious and is just playing with you and your feelings.