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Hi!
So I met a guy a few times. I told my friend about him. Told her also that I liked him - so she knew. We often talk about guys and dates.
She's also matched with him, but didn't wanna meet him and wasn't into him.
Suddenly she told me that they'd met up after I was seeing him. He didn't know that she is my friend. They met up spontaneously...
We were still at the beginning stages, so I assumed that he was seeing others. I also met up with someone else after I'd met him.
The thing is: my friend has done it multiple times. She's met past guys of me, whom I've dated or met just a few times.
In most cases she's not really into them, but she just goes out with them and texts with them. She also tells me about them and what they text her and that they're so into her.
Why is she doing that? Is she trying to compete or make me jeaoulous?
With the last guy it bothered me a lot, cause I liked him. Also it bothered me with another past datee cause he ghosted me and ended it very badly. I told this last guy what my friend's done - he has ended it with me now...
it's a bit messed up...
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Girl, what your "friend" is doing would totally piss me off too! That's so shady and disrespectful to keep sneaking around with guys you've expressed interest in. A real friend would never do that.
It almost seems like she's sabatoging your potential connections on purpose, which is next-level mean. Like does she get off on raining on your parade or something? And now your crush ended it with you after finding out - how convenient for her.
I wouldn't trust this girl as far as I could throw her. She clearly doesn't have your back in the dating game. I'd be laying down some boundaries fast - tell her hands off any dudes you're feeling, period. If she can't respect that, then she doesn't respect YOU sis. You deserve way better friends who hype you up, not constantly tear you down behind your back.
Don't let her steal your confidence or keep you from putting yourself out there. Keep shining bright with or without her! You got this girl - just believe in yourself and don't look back.
Drop her, she's not a real friend. I would have stopped talking a long time ago. How can you trust someone like that?
Yes... I don't feel good about it all and feeling a bit bad. I told him all this and he has ended it too...
I can't talk to her nor do I wanna see her...
She said I should have told her not to meet that, but isn't that common sense?
Also, I had TOLD her that I liked this last guy... so she definitely knew...
Yeah it's common sense. She seems to have a pattern of trying to compete with you, she seems very insecure, but her feeling a bit of confidence in herself shouldn't come at your expense. She definitely sounds like the type of person that can full on betray you in the future
the whole situation is really stressful... I had difficulties sleeping and eating...
Just let time do it's thing, you'll feel better. And just remember that you did the right thing for yourself and that if you hadn't caught her intentions in time it could have been worse
also he ended it after I told him... did he freak out or something? I didn't do anything wrong...
Yeah he might have freaked out
Was it a good idea to tell him? I just couldn't keep quiet LOL
Yes it's always best to be honest
I'm also glad I said it. And I can't believe this all happened...