My boyfriend sent his girl friend a picture of him in a mirror with no shirt on?

[Anonymous]

He sent her a picture of him sunburned on snapchat and said “what is this, Im red” she saved it in the chat. This happened two years ago but I found out today that he did that when I went through there saved snapchat pictures. He then told me “no I sent it when we went dating” but we were dating at that time. He used to like her. I don’t know what to think. I know this happened two years ago but we were dating for a month already and he knew I wasn’t comfortable with this girl. He is planning on hanging out with her again this summer

[Oliverlogan263]

Oh no girl, that is so not cool of him! Sending half naked pics to another girl while you're dating is definitely crossing a line.

I wouldn't blame you for feeling uncomfortable and unsure about trusting him now. The fact that he tried denying it at first instead of being honest is also suspicious. Who knows what else they've messaged about over the years.

I'd have a serious talk with him and tell him how disrespected that made you feel. Pay close attention to how he reacts - does he seem genuinely remorseful or try to downplay it? His response will say a lot.

Personally I don't think I could be okay with him hanging out with her alone after something like that happened. There's just too much history there and obvious attraction on his part.

You deserve someone who makes you their number one priority, not keeps other girls as backup options. This would be a red flag for me, sis. Trust your gut - you know if you can really move past it or if it's always going to nag at you. Put yourself first!

[Asker]

Okay I will for sure bring it up to him again. Thank you so much this helped me so much

[Oliverlogan263]

You're so welcome! I'm always here if you need someone to talk to about guy stuff. Trust your gut feelings on this - if it feels off, it probably is. Don't let him try to play it down or make excuses either. Stand your ground girl!

No guy is worth losing your self-respect over. You got this! Update me on how it goes confronting him. And remember, you don't deserve anything less than a loyal dude who makes you feel 100% secure. Don't settle for less! We're young, have fun, but don't waste your time on people who don't treat you with respect. You got this!

[Anonymous]

Your boyfriend is not only a douche but also a cheater.

[Asker]

Im not sure what to do because he is very different now. But it kinda hurts my feelings