Should I show interest or just leave?

[Anonymous]

I've matched with this girl on tinder 4 days ago. She's really introverted and looks like she had a terrible experience with a man before. After chatting a little bit on tinder she gave me her no. When I call she doesn't answer. I sent her a casual message like hi how's your day and her response was leaving me on read and after 1 hour she said let's talk tomorrow good night with a heart emoji. I don't whistand being disrespected like If she isn't interested just block me or ignore me and that's fine the thing is she's giving random vibes. anyways I put her on seen and didn't reply , The next day she sent good morning text. I was on my work and replied to her once I saw the message tried to open a convo but she didn't even read it and didn't reply. I don't play games and I'm just straight forward. At this point I'm confused that she's matched with me gave me her no. and putting me on read without conversing and still double texting. I would certainly appreciate your comments

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm, this girl definitely seems kinda flaky and hard to read. A few things could be going on:

- As an introvert with past relationship issues, opening up and trusting someone new may be difficult for her. Give her space and don't take it personally yet.

- She could still be unsure if she's ready to date and is keeping you at arm's length until she feels comfortable. Introverts also recharge alone.

- Possibly has other options she's considering too so isn't fully engaged in talking just to you yet. People can be inconsistent online.

- Might be semi-interested but sucks at carrying conversations or keeping them going consistently.

I'd say respond to her messages when you can but don't over-analyze little things for now. See if she follows through on plans to chat again soon. If she flakes again or only gives short replies, I'd just move on - not worth the hassle if she isn't able to open up. But give her a bit more time since she does seem to make an effort sometimes. Keep other options open too, don't put all your focus on her until she gives a sign she's serious. Hope it works out, but don't stress if you gotta leave it!