Should I let a guy pick me up on the second date?

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[sage2021]

I don't believe that you can trust him after only one date. Trust takes time to build.
I would be afraid to let him pick you up. Meet him somewhere and always tell someone you know where you are going and with whom.

One time I went on a date with a man, a big sized man, that I met just once but I went to his place once too. We talked on the phone a number of times.
But when he picked me up and I was in his car with him he seemed different. He asked if I told anyone about him, him name, address, phone number, etc., and I did, so I said yes, they know all about you.
He replied "That's too bad because I wanted to rape and pillage you".

I was uneasy the rest of the night and was so glad I got home safe.

That was a very long time ago and people are weirdo's even more these days.

Please be careful and don't get in his car or know where you live. Check your mirrors constantly to see if he follows you home because they do that without you even knowing it.

[Via_8662]

I would not. I may consider it if it was someone I either knew previously or knew through mutual friends, but it would still more than likely be a no.

[Chazmatazz269]

Whale… sheet!
I wanna say ‘Yes’. But if you were my sister, i’d tell ya “FUCK NO!”
Ell oh ell!
So… if you’re armed, at least times two. If at least two close friends or relatives know who you’re with and where you’re going. If you have a “find my phone” app and at least those two people can track you. And if you know jiujitsu. Sure, you can go. Just don’t be surprised if we bump into each other at every waypoint.
To be fair, i’d give similar advice to a man i care about.

[slatyb]

What do you know about him? How do you feel about him? If you aren't sure, then just say you will meet him there.

[AviatorTom]

That depends on how the first date went, how confident you are, and how much you trust him.

[LiamS95]

Just make sure that if you don't fully trust him yet that someone you do trust knows where you're going and can provide you with an alternate way back home.

[sheikalana]

I wouldn’t let anyone pick me up from my house until I feel safe around them and trust their intentions.

[dustybiker2]

Only if he's a cop. In which case he's already done a background check on you anyway.

[Chazmatazz269]

Daniel Holtzclaw would approve. Ell oh ell!

[fordtruck]

Yes gas is expensive and that’s one way you can save money

[Anonymous]

If you think you know him well enough to trust him, then sure. I'd probably wait before telling them where I live though until I was certain.

[bowenw]

If you're the least bit uncomfortable about it, no.

[DrPepper12]

Yeah. Why not? There's always friends, taxi or Uber!

[MacDaddyRico]

If you think you can trust him after just one date, think about all the charming serial killers' unfortunate victims.

[MrDaveAPSI]

I'm sorry "let"?

Do you think you control us?

[DreamLife7]

At 49 you asking this question is disturbing. You're top old to be slow boo

[KrakenAttackin]

This depends on how comfortable you are with him.

[elaphe]

I have picked up girls on the first date. Why date someone you don't trust?

[Luckycharms12]

No but early creepy people out there can never be to careful

[justabuddy]

Usually best to have options. I would drive personally.

[eagle1951]

why wouldn't you let him pick you up on the first date even

[chrissykerdock]

you know he'll want head

[LaurenM1997]

Do what you want it’s your choice

[Ms_Facesitter]

If you feel it's right. If yhe trust is there.

[OddBeMe]

You’re 49. He should be afraid of you.

[dustybiker2]

I'll tell my man he has three good years left.

[OddBeMe]

@dustybiker2 you tell him shit unless it’s to give you an extra orgasm. Ungrateful boyfriend.

[dustybiker2]

Awe, thanks.