Guys, should I ask him for a second date?

[Anonymous]

I met up with this guy last week and had a great time. We are still talking which is a good sign. He asked to meet up first. I like him a lot and want to see him again but he hasn't suggested about meeting up again. I've asked him what his plans are for the weekend and he said he doesn't have plans. Should I ask if he wants to meet up again? I'm just scared of being rejected and don't want to sound too keen, but I want him to know I am interested. The worst he can say is no so I don't think I have anything to lose. Maybe he is waiting for me to ask? I don't want to wait around for ages for him to ask and then nothing happens.

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+1 y

He ended up asking to meet again next week :-)

[dannymexico90]

Gah women are so annoying. He asked first and put himself out there so now it's your turn to take a risk. It's like women expect men to be the only ones who get nervous. That's how proper dating is done. One person plans a date than the other person plans the next. I don't keep talking to women who never ask for more especially if I've taken her out twice. Than you call them and they want to be upset that you haven't blown them up

[lordpokerface]

Fear of rejection is greater than rejection itself. Don't let the thought enter your head.

You should be in the clear to ask him out on another date. If he's the shy/awkward type, then it's possible he thinks you didn't have a good time and that you're only talking to him to save him pain.

[AlphaGhost]

He asked you first time now its your turn and yep, He would also be confused about your reaction about that first date. So please spare him the trouble and show that you are trust worthy girl.

[johnnielegend]

If you're both waiting for each other to ask for fear of rejection you could wait forever. He asked you first time round so ask him this time. Sounds to me like he needs you to reassure him that he's not keener than you. Do it now girl!

[tomd93]

Just say you are also free this weekend and that you wish someone would ask you for plans, throw a wink face in there and he'll get the picture

[WiseTurtle]

ask him then, you have tiny chances to be rejected if the guy enjoyed the date.

[Asker]

True, but others say I should wait but I could be waiting for ages. I don't know what to do! :(

[WiseTurtle]

They have right too but you want to rush things and this will be only a second date so go for it. If you've been rejected which i highly doubt it will be just a life lesson that's all.

[Asker]

He ended up asking to meet again :)

[WiseTurtle]

that's right well done. see nothing bad happened 😁

[Browneye57]

"I have tickets to [fill in the blank] Want to go?"
"How 'bout dinner at [such and such]? I'm buying."
"I'll be at [place] why don't you come by?"
"Some friends are having a party - want to go?"

[Dude55]

Don't wait around, if you like the guy then go for it and show your interest!

[Radical11]

Text him. If you are still talking to you, then hasn't lost interest in you

[ssmsam]

hey. how u?

[Radical11]

Doing good n u?

[Tw1nm3t3or]

Log off and tell him you are intetested in him. Ask the question.

[Anon-ymous1]

Yes, you should absolutely ask. What are you waiting for? Good luck.

[paulscholes]

if he expressed his interest in another meeting then go for it and ask him... if he didn't , then i guess he didn't like the first date