This is an overview of the first date :
We met for coffee together. First impression of him was not good. He went directly to the counter and paid for his own coffee and so I got my own. He didn’t even offer…
We had a friendly convo about interests and nothing too deep. Then he suggested we can go for a walk so we walked around. Note this was a very hot day and he complained multiple times about how he hates the temperature and hot weathers. Nonetheless he still wanted to continue convo and walk around with me.
I said I might go now cause I need to get grocery shopping done and he said he had nothing to do so will join me so I was like okay sure. But while walking I felt light headed and I wanted to get some food and asked if he wanted to grab something too and we went to get dinner he shouted and I said I’ll pay half and he said I can get the next one.
Later we talked and I guess I talked about religion which we had different beliefs but I did put on my dating app so he should expect it. We had a couple of drinks and later went to have dessert together. We continued to talk more and we talked a bit about love language. I said mine was words of affirmation and he told me I looked good today and I jokingly said I’m blushing. It was late so I said i wanna go home now and he was kind enough to walk me home and finished with a hug.
He texted me that he had a great time etc and I said I did too. After that he never said anything until 3 days later. He said he thought about it and think we don’t have a connection more than friends. Which to be fair yeah I didn’t feel much more than friends either but I was open to a second date if he wanted one. We hung out for 9 hours total that day lol
I guess even though I mutually feel the same way I’m curious what factors makes someone feel like they don’t feel a connection. What do you guys think of the date and the possible reasons why he didn’t want to ask me on a second date?
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Possible reasons why he didn’t want a second date when first date went well?
