Ask out this girl?

[Anonymous]

I got a message from a girl saying ' she got my number from a mutual friend ' after meeting at a party. Do I shoot my shot with her? Or does she just want to be friends?

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm sounds like she's at least interested enough to reach out, bro! A few thoughts:

- The fact she got your number after meeting signals she wants to chat more one-on-one. Feel me?

- Your homie must've said something good about you for her to hit you up that way. She's checking you out I bet.

- Maybe ask her a casual question about what she's been up to lately, what her hobbies are or whatnot. Gets a convo going and lets you vibe each other out more over text.

- Then be like "hey we should meet up for coffee sometime and continue catching up, what do you think?" See how she responds to the idea of linking in person.

- Worst she can say is she just wants to be pals, in which case you live to fight another day lol. Better to take your shot than always wonder "what if?".

Go for it my man! Real talk it sounds promising and ain't nothing ventured nothing gained, you feel me? Keep it chill and see where the vibes take you guys. You got this bro!