Guys, are plastic surgeries a major turnoff for you?

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I am going to add some additional information here.

So I am 21 and I definitely need a bunch of surgeries to fix my defects. Thankfully, my parents allowed me to live with them for free (I know I ought to be ashamed and I am) and this way I will be able to set aside a relatively lot of money (about $1100) every month, which means by the time I turn 26 I will have had all the plastic surgeries I need.

[ohsheeT]

Hi how are you you don't have to answer me but I'm curious what kind of defects do you have.. . My answer would have been if you need cosmetic surgery to make yourself better because of cancer situations or you know things like that I would say go for it..

But for me I think women are beautiful just the way they are if they have small boobs and they want bigger boobs you don't go for it I guess but I don't want to be any a part of it when I see fake boobs I just look at the whole person is being fake and I know that's wrong but that's just the way I am I like real natural everything because it is true beauty you just can't see it I can see true beauty because I look into the person's eyes and I find out who they are on the inside first that radiates to the outside if a girl doesn't like herself because of her boobs well I'm sorry but I guess it's okay they can do whatever they want but for me I like real everything I mean if if a girl had a crooked nose I wouldn't care if that gives her character I can see the beauty in it if she has smaller boobs I don't care that's her character I'd like that because they're just as sensitive if they were bigger it doesn't matter but yeah just to get plastic surgery just to get it is you know not for me or the girl I want to be with that at the same time I have to say if women need plastic surgery because of something that has happened to them you know fire or car accident or cancers or whatever I say yes go for it

[Anonymous]

To answer the title: yes its a major turnoff for me, but I have to add its mostly because I asociate Plastic Surgery with the bs like lipfillers, botox, breast enhancements or other unatural stuff. As most of the people who do that more look like plastic-dolls than actual human beings afterwards. I am the kind of guy who likes girls for just being human beings and having a natural body. But ofcourse there is a difference between that and just "small" stuff like reshaping a nose, fixing a stuck-upper lip (I don't know how they call it in English) or something like that.

There was a girl I knew who looked beautiful, but people kept saying she was ugly and other hatefull stuff. Some years later she underwent plastic surgery in the form of botox, lipfillers and stomach-reduction. I think to please those people who kept calling her ugly. It was a major turnoff for me and I never looked back on her. Such a shame how a beautifull young girl (she was just 19 at that time) turned out like that.

But back to the subject. You say you have "defects". What kind of defects do you mean? Are these physical defects or just things of yourself you don't like? As most people kinda lean to the latter and turn to plastic surgery. Thanks social media for that as well.

[Anonymous]

Yes, but also no. I’m ok w getting w a girl for some fun if she’s had plastic surgery. But as far as a real relationship, no I’m not interested. I think another issue is that if you’re eating till you’re 26, obviously you’re going to age by 5 years. So now you’re naturally getting old. So this may be another issue that bothers you because now you’re looking at maybe bag under your eyes, forehead dropping some, etc, etc. If so that cycle will continue, especially as you keep getting older.

[Man-O-Metal]

If it's for reconstruction from a terrible accident I understand. I've seen a guy who went through 5 years of surgeries just to look normal again after a horrendous chemical spill/explosion. But, if you're talking about getting surgery for personal insecurities, I cannot support that. I've known several people to live comfortably with real defects and what they think are defects. Embrace what/who you are and don't give in to vanity.

[Drewtate]

Often women go too far with the plastic surgeries and end up aging themselves prematurely with lip fillers, botox, fillers, the cheek suction, nose jobs, fair boobs and fake asses.

If you look at some of the celebrity women guys considered beautiful most of them are average with minor psychical flaws but it those very flaws that actually make them attractive.

[Berethor]

I am not sure if it major to me but natural beauty is clearly superior to a fake beauty.

https://edition.cnn.com/2013/06/25/health/asian-beauty/index.html

[RavVid]

Not a big fan of breast enhancements. Other improvements shouldn't be discernible to me. If a girl has a nose job t is not possible for me to know unless it was botched.

I don't see I can get turned off if I don't know. You can always pick breast enhancements. There was a Cosmo quiz and I scored 100%

[LiamJHayden]

Not always. I went to school with a girl who hated her nose. The pic below is not the girl but is a rough approximation of her before and after. Afterward her eyes and smile could shine through whereas before all people would notice was the odd nose.

[OfMiceandMen]

It depends on what you are getting done, if it's minor cosmetic stuff, then no big deal. If you are thinking breasts, I would rethink it.

[Fireguy17]

yes, it is a big turn off, huge fake boobs, fish lips, cat face, it is not attractive at all.

[LiamS95]

Not a fan of plastic surgery unless someone has been disfigured in A fire or accident of dome kind. Fake boobs are hideous.

[Hideous]

And what about women who just don't feel good in their own skin?

[LiamS95]

It's most likely not as bad as they imagine, perhaps some therapy would help

[ICanSmellTheCosmos]

Once the filters, clothing, and make-up are gone, I can't say that I've ever seen plastic surgery that made a girl (or dude) look *better*. Sans reconstruction, it's an industry that preys on people's insecurities.

[SotiCoto]

If it is obvious then yes. If I don't know about it then it literally can't be.

[exitseven]

it is not but a lot of plastic surgeries' look really fake and even bizzarre, It would be sort of a distraction.

[ChicoFromThe305]

In it's own way yea but not a deal breaker, it just kinda sucks

[AlexEfron]

If done for sex appeal, then yes. If done for medical reasons, then no.

[DrPepper12]

No. It demonstrates self care, pride in appearance and a woman who knows what will increase her happiness. No problem at all!

[KrakenAttackin]

Good grief girl. Go see a therapist before getting cut up.

[D_Bone_Steak]

I swear I answered this question... normal protocol, picture for the AI bot to choose me for superb opinion. Here I am looking and my answer is just gone. I like to look at old posts to laugh at what I said... but my shit just goes bye bye sometimes. My answer was along the lines of what you said so I 2nd your motion.

[KrakenAttackin]

@D_Bone_Steak I have had similar answers disappear as well.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Shit hits me deep because I put a lot of heart into that post. It was a real answer to this question. Damn, it was long too... just gone. I don't want to blame the asker, but somebody made my shit disappear. I cam back and read my response and no I come back... just gone... picture and all.

[bowenw]

I'm a fan of them if it helps the person feel better about themselves.

[OtterMan68]

Not a major turn off unless they make the woman look fake like big fake boobs, tightly stretched skin, inflated lips...

[John_Cobretti]

Depends on how it turned out, more plastic on face than in the ocean is a turn off

[Dongie]

Yes, unless of course you can't tell. But usually you can.

[Anonymous]

Yes. Plastic surgeries are a turn-off... unless they're performed to eliminate gross deformities

[JacobJordan]

Yup. I wouldn't date a fake woman

[ProbablyClueless]

We aren't fans of plastic surgeries.

[Yannae]

Major turnoff. Well said. It is.

[soe11]

I never advice to my girlfriend.

[In_Trance]

Depends why the surgery is happened.

[Hideous]

Is not feeling good in your own skin a valid reason?

[In_Trance]

Invalid; the things that are making you not feel good in that skin are not the skin itself. You spend thousands and look like you're made of plastic only to be living the same life

[handsomelad70]

Yes, ESPECIALLY boob and butt jobs !!!

[Fromdusktilldawn]

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yes definitely

[noohair]

Bad plastic surgery is worse than no surgery.

[MacDaddyRico]

Unless it was a necessary surgery, yes.

[Pterodon]

Yes they are if for purely vain reasons

[jahaims]

Yeah

[OddBeMe]

They don’t help.

[GuyAskGirls-69]

Nope

[NTwBWCoh]

Yes very much so