How did you feel after ending things with your Fbuddy?

[Anonymous]

What was the reason?

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How did you feel when things ended for you and your Fbuddy?

[D_Bone_Steak]

Usually, it's just moving on as per agreement. When I ended it early, I'd just give the reason and it was like "Oh okay" and I mean they might ask why, but I'd just say it and that was that. When they end it early, it's just like "Oh hell yeah! Now I've got time to go find some strange!"

My biggest issue with a chick ending it early is they'll go try their hand at "a real boy friend," and then they wanna just hop back into my pants after a couple months out of the blue when I've done moved on.

I have standards, and not sleeping with some dude for at least 3 months is one of those standards. She's not going to get to come back and hop on my dick just because she got pumped and dumped and now she needs a backup plan because her feelings are hurt. NOT. MY. PROBLEM.

TBH, most of my friends with benefits's are married or have a boyfriend they're cheating on, so I don't have to usually deal with that. Single chicks trying to do that are where the headaches come from. They always think they're in control of everything until they're not... and I'm including their own fucking feelings there.

[OfMiceandMen]

I was indifferent about the whole thing. Typically, we were seeing each other in evenings and periodically during the week when my daughter was staying with relatives. However, I found her coming over to spend more time with me and wanting to get to know my daughter.

She was 27 and I was 40 at the time and she was very clear at the beginning that she did not want a relationship as she was searching for a job in her field and didn't know where it would take her.

I am unsure if she was bothered when we ended it, but I think it was the best choice for both us.

[provokeesmokee]

I've ended 3 friends with benefits arrangements. One because he didn't have any interest in learning and that's a res flag for me and my kind of play


One I ended because of logistical incompatiblity, that's all.

The last I ended because she caught feelings, lied about being ok with staying friends with benefits just to keep fucking, and then lost it on me and a bunch of others due to her own insecurities later.

[Asker]

Would u end if u weren’t sexually compatible?

[provokeesmokee]

Yes. Sexual comparability is the entire point of friends with benefits to me.

[Asker]

So it would be reasonable to end if the girl doesn’t like giving head while the guy “needs” blow jobs?

[ApplePie409]

They did the ending, not me. It sucks, but even milk has an expiration date.

[Asker]

Did it feel weird not receiving his messages or calls to meet up vice versa?

[ApplePie409]

No, because it's to be expected in a non-committal relationship. You reap what you sow. I was playing on the edge, and got burnt. I owned it.
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[Account]

I never had one and I have never wanted one.

[Anonymous]

Sad but she wasn't marraige material. She was fun to be with even if she was a bit fat and getting fatter but she smoke too much weed, drank too much, couldn't cook, wouldn't clean and was going nowhere. She thought she was so smart because she had a college degree but that was in gender studies and she barely got that after 5 years and thousands in student debt.

Truth is a woman who is an f buddy or friends with benefits is not good enough to marry but a lot of women get into these relationships with guys they see as a good prospect for marraige which will never happen because she isn't good enough.

[Vegasrunner]

It's different depending on the fbuddy. For most I don't usually feel anything because there's always someone to replace her. One that stands out is when my fbuddy of 10 years moved and we decided to cut contact. Eventhough I had others I still was disappointed not having her on the roster.

[Asker]

So it didn’t feel weird not receiving her messages or calls to meet up vice versa?

[Vegasrunner]

@Asker TBH I don't remember the feeling enough to accurately articulate it. I probably wouldn't be the best guy to ask because my sexual strategy is to keep several fbuddies on my roster. I go into these situations w/ an expiration date set. The woman that lasted for so long did so partly because she wasn't a headache for about the 1st 9 years.

[Angxl3120]

It feels kinda lonely but it was the correct thing. I dont want to be a someones fuckdoll

[GawkVoidArisen]

@Angxl3120 mind if I ask you for some advice? I dmed you :)

[Asker]

Did it feel weird not receiving his messages or calls to meet up vice versa?

[Angxl3120]

I mean we still send eachother tiktoks and all but we just refuse to meet eachother for our own good

[LordMadara]

wtf is a friends woth bemefits?

get the fock out of the way

😩

with these corny arse terminologies y'all using

geezus christ fo focks sake 😭

[DishLady]

Have never had someone who is simply an fbudy, so I wouldn't know. In relationships, obviously there are hurt feelings.

[mandyfire98]

I ended it because I met my boyfriend and started dating him.

[Nikki1989]

It is only sex, and sometimes you have to move on.

[Ms_Facesitter]

Hopeful for the romantic relationship. The reason being the romantic relationship :)

[DrPepper12]

Never had a friends with benefits. You crazy kids invented that!

[Juxtapose]

She moved and we wouldn't have been a good couple. She's a good friend though!

[shortster]

Horny. She wasn't very honest and it was getting weirder.

[Anonymous]

This is going to sound bad. But, I introduced her to my friend. Actually, some of them got married. Maybe I'm Good Luck Chuck.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not giving the reasons, but I will say their kids call me uncle, my friends are still my friends and we are happy.

[ProbablyClueless]

Disappointed and relieved.

[Asker]

Did it feel weird not receiving her messages or calls to meet up vice versa?

[ProbablyClueless]

It felt weird for me, but I also don't treat my F-buddies with the level of distance and contempt that a lot of people seem to.

[laly520]

never had one n will never have a one

[dean53AU]

She lied to me about something so I ended it

[dean53AU]

I felt annoyed but I miss the fun we had together

[Asker]

How long did it go for?

[dean53AU]

Approx 5yrs total but had been friends since both mid teens

[TonyMetal___86]

Never had one and never will!

[scott04sa22]

never had a F - bomb buddy

[JonesT10Apr]

I need to hear in detail.

[boobliker]

very shitiee