Cute photo! Mine wasn’t a serious relationship but it was a “thing” with a guy I was seeing steadily and who I fully fell in love with. We met last December. He has to move away for work until next year so we stopped seeing each other since I wanted more and he said he couldn’t think of a relationship since his career was so uncertain and he was moving out of country for 7 months. We didn’t talk for a couple months and then saw each other once again before he moved away. I still have no idea what I mean to him or if any of anything we had was all in my head. It’s as if he won’t share any of his feelings for me because he thinks I’ll beg for him to stay or create drama, or maybe he doesn’t have feelings for me at all and doesn’t have the guts to say so. I have ran through it all in my head so much I feel so drained. All in all, we agreed to stay in contact and when he comes home next year we can reassess it all. But who knows what will happen in that time. It’s all a gamble and I won’t know until a year from now. I don’t want to wish my life away but I really wish it was next year and I just knew how it all unfolds. I’ve never been this crazy for someone, and it has really exhausted me in all ways. I’m trying to view it differently and be positive. But for all I know I mean nothing to him more than a temporary fill for time.
It was with a girl I had meant and her boyfriend had just left her she was looking for work , I hired her and one thing lead to another, I told her it probably wasn't a good idea because I didn't thinking it would last I mean it was okay for a while but I just need down Jeep it wasn't going to work. she like to party and drink. I live in the 24-hour gambling town I would pay her every day want to go out catch a buzz and Gamble when you lived here all your life basically don't do that because the odds are against you anyway after time it became a everyday thing and then the thing turned into two or 3 days she would be gone and I told her I wasn't going to work out I thought it'd be better if she just left she said she didn't have any money to move a lot or any place to go I told her I'd help her and I did and she took that money and gamble it same time she got a new job. Since you became a good girl for a while and then it started all over again I just told her she was going to have to leave it took me about 5 months to get her out of my house give me a five month.. because I had kind of lost myself I was angry at myself I was angry at her I want to do just the me finally I bought an airline ticket for I took her to the airport and I made sure she got on the airplane and I made sure that airplane do not turn around before I left LOL it took me about five or six months before I found my smile and I can actually talk to people she would call me once a week telling me that she was going to come back and I told her you're not staying with me I don't even want to see you I ended up selling my house and moving 10 miles out of town it wasn't because of her is just perfect timing though I don't know if she ever came back into town or not but I was happy to find myself again that's for sure
This would have been the relationship before my current one. She was much younger than me, and we had an open relationship. We had had multiple three ways etc together, and had spoken about children. I had a 13 year old and simply wasn't interested in more children. She had expressed that she was also not interested. Anyway she had another lover, again our relationship was open and it was okay with me. We lived together. She decided that she wanted a baby, her other lover was willing... So she broke it off, moved out. Except that his family was horrible to her while mine embraced her. So she spent a few holidays with my family. (And a few holiday nights in my bed) and eventually I moved on. We're still friends, she's married to him and they have a wonderful young man. Now mind you this was early 2000s and her son just celebrated his 15th (?) Birthday. So it's water long under the bridge.
You will love my story. So basically our relationship starting going down hill in July 2019 when we decided to buy a place together and I did not make enough money was working 14 hour shifts for maybe $100 daily. Anyways he was spending like crazy and he was also doing steroids , so roid rage plus not supporting me = me moving out in a month. Anyways so after all that we broke up for a month and then we got back together. He had the urge to get married to me and move in very very quickly and I had a lot of pressure to get my life together. I started secretly working at a strip club as a bartender. During that time from October to January he was cheating on me and that January he broke up with me. During that time he was lying to me telling me that he wanted to move and that’s why he broke up with me, when in reality he was going to date this girl he was cheating with. They made it official on Valentine’s Day in 2020 and that day I went to his house to get my stuff back and I ended up punching him a few times because he tried shoving me out of his door frame and was calling me a bitch for randomly popping up to his house when he was trying to avoid telling me our relationship is officially finished
She was a churchy kind, so she was finding difficult to balance that and our relationship. By churchy i meant she was kind that would kiss you and feel bad about it cause she went to church the next day, she would come and tell me that the pastor preached about it in church today that it ain't good and all that at a time she stopped it, i didn't know why but i guess maybe she grew over that feeling cause she was younger than me. I wanted to make things official that she would be my girlfriend, she loved me i could tell she really did but the thing was her Dad was a pastor and her religion forbade dating that you had to be prepared to get married and that God directs our partners to us and all that. I love her so much that she wanted us to remain friends even after all the drama but i refused cause the pain was too much. We are kinda estranged now but its okay. I have nothing against her and she doesn't have any against me. Its just kinda weird.
when I proposed and offered the engagement ring that I made she kept it and then laughed at me and broke up with me. We'd been dating for 3 years and that was on Valentine's day and I did a lot of very romantic things like gave her flowers wrote a poem for her, took her to her favorite restaurant and to a Broadway show she wanted to see. that was ten years ago and I haven't dated since.
@Gagname 10 years ago last Feb 14. It's too late for me now anyways. I have medical conditions that now make sex impossible and that's a deal breaker for every woman I have spoken to in the last decade.
@IDontBelieveIt She was the fifth women in 30 years that I proposed marriage to and the 5th one to say no and all were actual relationships and not some random stranger I had a crush on.
She one day told me that her life is getting too hectic and she no longer has time for me and I was living a equally busy life so I couldn't even find the time to fight for her myself. It wasn't a happy ending but we ended on a good note, there was no fight no hatred no regrets so I guess it wasn't so horrible either for a story to end
Mostly, greed!! The other guy had a bit more money than I did! Doesn't LOVE mean you stick by your partner no matter what? I can completely understand if it's an issue of him abusing her, or vice versa but, to walk because one of you isn't raking in the big cash, just yet only shows how incredibly shallow the walker is!!
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Anonymous
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I last chatted w my GAG crush a month ago…
Even though we have the most amazing chemistry, I don’t want to enable her to cheat on her bf—because he didn’t know she was chatting w me, and she acknowledged he wouldn’t be ok w it.
It ended through text he was talking to other girls while we were dating and I was just getting so much anxiety so we had to end it. When we did end it though I realized that I didn’t have any feelings for him and now I had to deactivate my Facebook because he wouldn’t stop sending me friend requests
I’m not talking about my current boyfriend that I’ve been with for over a year im talking about my ex before him me and my boyfriend are never breaking up lol
Her two brothers heard a story about me and decided to pay me a visit. They wouldn't listen to the fact they had the wrong person, and continued to push me. I warned them several times that I had no intention of getting into a fight with them. Then one of them took a swing at me and knocked a tooth out, so I put them both in hospital. Their sister hasn't spoken to me since. The rumour they heard about me was false.
We were both of different religions and even though we had made it work for almost two years I felt like I had given all I had to give to the relationship and I was emotionally exhausted. I had lost bits of myself during the relationship to make sure we were both happy but in the end I couldn't do it any more and I just became miserable. I ended it but he understood where I was coming from and today we're still very good friends.
She texted me, gave me a sorry-ass type of an excuse as to why she's breaking it off from me & that was it. She wanted to remain friends after... which we did but that didn't even last long. We only stayed friends for like a few days, we had an argument over text & that was it. It was done between her & I.
My ex told me he was depressed & needed time for himself. Whether i believe that or not is another story, but i got ahold of his best friend, told him what happened & asked that he make sure my ex was okay before i went on with my life.
My ex cheated on me Feb 2020, tried to work on it, went into national lockdown March 2020, broke up via phone call May 2020. It wasn't working out, I didn't like him anymore and had fallen out of love with him.
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She had depression. It began after her grandmother died and it spiral downhill. I tried my best to help her. I really did. But I couldn't and had to let her go. She was sucking the life out of me. She got help and today she is fine which makes me very happy for her.
I broke up coz he asked me for nudes and said me that other girls send him nudes. After we patched up ( I forgave him), he agaain asked me for nudes, I broke up. Done. Lol.
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