Why did your last relationship end?

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MrOracle · Accepted Answer

Because of my curse. LOL.

One of the first things she told me when I met her is that she was out in California because her mother moved here to take a job - an executive position at a hospital - and that when her mom retired, she'd be moving back across the country. She wasn't positive when exactly that would be, but knew it would be about 3-4 years.

And, as it turned out, we were together just under 4 years before her mom had retired and they moved back to the east coast. There were some other issues affecting long-term compatibility but that weren't a big deal under the circumstances, so we agreed from the start that we would part amicably when the time came, and we did.

AndrewMG · Accepted Answer

Well my last ex was (and still is ) in the police force and lives in the same town as me, so I think the safe option is to blame it ending on me-and to be fair she may have a point-in all seriousness a mixture of drifting apart, both having career changes which impacted on our social life's and maybe equally important the fact we were really close friends for years before we dated to the extent we'd pretty much had our honeymoon period well before we'd dated. It's a regret of mine we went out as a 3 month relationship essentially meant an end to a 5 year friendship.

VIVANT · Accepted Answer

It wasn’t exactly a relationship bc I knew it was never going to last and we didn’t have ex or anything lol and we were minors.. but we were close in our way , at a time when it had been over a decade since I’d been close to any living being.. and it lasted a while.

ARRANGED MARRIAGE was the reason it ended THEN. It ended sooner than I expected which misled me to believe I didn’t want it to end. It definitely would have and should have ended anyhow. It would not have worked out. It’s good it ended when it did bc it would have taken me too long otherwise, to end it myself.

We are both good people, better off with other good and compatible people.

Harmseygrace · Accepted Answer

Because he cheated on me, he reckoned I was too dumb, he reckoned I was too immature, etc. That was pretty rich from the guy who says stuff like 'ur not on lvl', cheated on 20 girls, thinks cheatings normal and okay, tries to make out like he grew up in the bloody hood when he has a picture perfect life, etc. He's as dumb and immature as it gets. He cheated on me cause apparently he wants to get right with God. 😂

SydneySentinel · Accepted Answer

It's pretty obvious... so no need for me to give anymore details.

coachTanthony · Answer

Long distance... too far away.  It was fun while it lasted!

Jean-Marie_Céline · Answer

She refused to work on her issues and addictions, a week later she smashed a mirror cutting up both mine and her hands.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

My current relationship is ending because my girlfriend is alcoholic, I have exhausted my patience with all the self-inflicted problems that arise from her drinking, and she refuses to acknowledge that it is a problem.

AudreyB88 · Answer

Physical distance: He moved away. We had different goals in life, and could not get ours to align.

Apple1996 · Answer

I broke up with him because he wasn't spending enough time with me

lightbulb27 · Answer

I luv that pic!
bottom line, emotional instability was causing severe pain both sides. I reached my point of reality, I ended it and glad I did. I own my side of it, I see how I was a catylast... I grew from it. She has her issues for sure, she has to own them.

A suspect a tree just wants to grow and live it's life without any diffculty and reproduce. But it doesn't grow unless it gets some stressing windows. It is the challenges overcome and learned from failings that make it stronger. It also, must prune...

AllThatSweetJazz · Answer

Never got a real explanation. She said something about her mum disapproving, but also that she didn’t tell her mum. That’s basically all I got in two short texts and then that’s it. The last time I saw her was over a week before she sent the text. We were in good terms, there was literally no problem between us. I don’t really understand what happen to this day.

dragonfruitA · Answer

In the seven months we dated he never said he loved me, even though he would talk about a future together. I waited but meanwhile fell for someone else, who was more direct with me and more caring. My boyfriend at the time realized something was up and accused me of sleeping with someone else. Eventually we made up. But my love for him was gone. I tried to fix it by saying I Love You for the first time. He didn't say it back. So I walked.

Dog_of_Wisdom · Answer

My ex's last relationship was a long distance relationship. We started dating a few months after her break-up after being good friends for a long time. A few weeks after we started dating, I found out my parents are divorcing, and I will be moving out-of-state after a graduate 4 months later.

Rather than pain her with another LDR and deal with a messy break-up after getting close to each other for 4 months, I broke up with her then and never spoke to her again.

integrale77 · Answer

She cheated on me.
We where having money troubles I was depressed and instead of working through things together and understanding my state of mind she opted to have an affair.
Her next plan was to go back to her mum and leave me to deal with the mortgage and other bills while she went back to going out clubbing as if she was 18 again.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

It ended because it started out with the wrong foot.

NYCstreetPhotog · Answer

Combination of both of our insecurities, and inability to evolve our communication skills towards each other. Tragic really, but it motivated me to learn and hone my communication skills in order to grow personally. I still think about her constantly, and I don't foresee my love for her waining anytime soon, but it is what it is. Cest la vie.

EmmaMary · Answer

Having tried for twelve months to make things work, we amicably agreed we were not compatible.

Ian849 · Answer

Not entirely sure, came home from having knee surgery and she had fucked off with the kids and all the furniture and belongings. No idea where her or the kids are (she deleted all her social media, changed her number and so did all her family). Still have no clue why she left

humanearth · Answer

Because my ex-wife found this group on yahoo chat. In the BDSM/GOREAN section

After about 6 months of playing a online slave to a BDSM couple. She went and took it to real life.

So she left with the kids and moved to the other side of the country. So she could be a live in sex slave.

FatherJack · Answer

I had enough of her laziness , slobbishness , permanent foul mood / screaming , constant complaining , self pity , blame / fault mentality , above all my 2 kids were affected by this , not to mention me. So I got rid of her and took majority custody of my 2.

Turtlewax1994 · Answer

selfishness on their end mine please?

GreenGold1992 · Answer

Her ex boyfriend texted her in school one day saying he still loved her. She felt confused as to what she wanted, things went to shit. It may have been my pushing her to make a choice or she was very indecisive, but she couldn't choose between me and him, so she just wanted to break it off.

ZeonWolf69 · Answer

Because she was two face and bat shit crazy and was cheating on me with 3 other guys. And still dated and moved in with her for a year and a half. I was blind to all the issues and the multiple people telling me the truth that I choose to ignore.

Maddz7 · Answer

I didn’t let him meet my family and it’s a good thing too I found out a month late he got someone else pregnant we didn’t even kiss!! It was when we were 16 I’ve been single since haha

Drumlin2001 · Answer

She gave up. There were circumstances, we'd unexpectedly fallen pregnant, she ended things after finding out but she just didn't want to work on us, didn't want to talk at all.
She miscarried. We still never talked.

WalterBlack · Answer

My ex and I realized that even though we still loved each other very much, we didn't like being in a relationship with the other any longer. It sounds like a cliche, but we grew apart.

burlen · Answer

She asked for my honest opinion about her. I told her I think she approaches a relation in an old-fashioned way. Three days after she used my opinion as her reason for breaking up.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

I critisized the church and constantly involved the pastor in inconvenient discussions. When my lady concluded that I am not a good Christian. I cannot blame her. We are still on very amicable terms.

JesseJayNeak · Answer

She had to leave to go back to her hometown in Thailand

LordSnuggles · Answer

She felt like she couldn't satisfy me. Past relationships made her insecure. Despite my support, she felt she needed to end the relationship.

Lemia · Answer

1) She pretended to fancy me to get me to buy her stuff 2) She pretended she didn't want a sexual relationship by making up stories 3) She always looked else where for her Jolleys.

Elliegirl · Answer

I broke up with my last boyfriend before I met my husband because he got really selfish and wasn’t appreciative of me and my needs.

scandiblonde · Answer

My current relationship is ending because of violence. Dear god how good it feels to become a single agin.

luvstoned4him · Answer

he has a girlfriend which he tried to keep secret good thing am super guarded or i wouldn't have found out

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

Well cause my ex-girlfriend at the time loss my class-ring that my late maternal grandparents bought me cause my Mom and Dad couldn't afford to buy me one.

zoeadams3 · Answer

My previous relationship, which didn’t last long, was because he was just using me for sex, and I was foolish to go along.

RandyRoades · Answer

I was an egotistical selfish pompus asshole. That thought making Millions was way more important than tending to my relationship. Look where it got me Divorced Broke and very lonely.

Gottabsavagee · Answer

I was a rebound. I gave him time but he was keep acting hot and cold disappearing for one week or two at a time. I had enough after several tries so I went m. i. a.

Smoothshave · Answer

Because My Wife Was A Self Centered Lying Cunt...
She Demanded 100% Honesty At All Times, “The Truth No Matter What Brings No Consequences, And You’re Much More Respected”, Yet, She Herself Couldn’t Tell The Truth Herself...

Sevenpointfive · Answer

because attraction and great sex isn't the glue that keeps a couple together

QueenTanya · Answer

He still loved his ex, and I dated him out of pity so I wasn't really showing him love

HomoFuge · Answer

We wanted different things and decided it was best that we broke up as it wouldn’t work long term.

Texaskid1 · Answer

She refused to obey my commands. No sandwiches, no shirts ironed. No sexy time. I sent her packing.

Miristheiss · Answer

She was cool but we just weren't compatible is some ways.

TyPilot · Answer

Because I was stupid, and too fast in the relationship. But you really can't blame me... I never had a Girlfriend before.

winterfox10 · Answer

She had concluded somewhere along the line that she couldn't trust me anymore. She just... stopped communicating with me.

KennyD421 · Answer

We both pushed each other to the point where we were not really focused on anything but looking for any type of excuse to end it after 8yrs...

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Basically because I couldn't play wife to someone who didn't want marriage and I was starting to feel single.

TonyBologna25 · Answer

She started becoming emotionally abusive. She was bipolar, and I excused a lot of things. It got a point where she couldn’t make me happy anymore.

worldscolide · Answer

Because she chose to physically attack me and slice my face up..

NightOwl8801 · Answer

It was her attitude... Loud and obnoxious, I broke things off after about six or nine months... I think that's how long it lasted but that's been 2010/2011

esotericstory · Answer

Because my ex was sending messages with incels to get gifts. She got one of them to buy her an anime cosplay Japanese schoolgirl outfit. I pulled the plug when I learned this.

trishhhxx · Answer

he cheated numerous times, was mentally and emotionally abusive, pathological liar

ikisseddeath · Answer

She changed broke my heart started drinking she knew all my weaknesses and hurt me with them became a lier a fake

WistfulBookworm · Answer

It was middle school. I told the guy I realized I'm a lesbian. He was understanding and told me he's bi.

Fattyvapes16 · Answer

Her going around telling people things that never happened went to court she said I rapped her she came over once for one hour to meet me and we were with my family

COMMODOREII · Answer

She cheated on me and went to india to have another man's baby. We were engaged.

DiegoO · Answer

The main reason was the distance. Other things came along and made the relationship unbearable.

13IsALuckyNumber · Answer

Well it’s kind of difficult and easy for it to end if it never existed.

Juxtapose · Answer

She said was attatched to her ex but really, I think I just wasn't her type.

Therisinghero12 · Answer

General toxicity and she was involved with another guy

Snakeyes7 · Answer

I honestly don’t know, she just left, she lost interest I guess

legalboxers · Answer

She was too flaky and crazy for me, she belittled me

CT_CD · Answer

I like big boobs but she refused to get breast implants. Had to break up

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