Toxicity and obnoxious behavior from her end. My last ex was extremely insecure and assumed the worst in everything. Didn't respond to her for a short period of time because I was in the shower, she thinks I'm cheating. She hated it when I was spending time with my friends, because it would mean my attention went to other people. Me holding the can of soda in a certain angle, she had an issue with that as well. She giving me a cold shoulder and so I would walk away, she starts screaming, crying and throwing hands.
I was basically dealing with an emotionally unstable individual and I gave her more patience than I should have. And now that I have found a much better partner, my ex is sitting on my social media with sent friend request that I ignored.
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The lady I was dating decided that she couldn't go to grad school and date me at the same time. So, rather than just... ya know... telling me that, she decided to have me write her personal statement for her application, refuse to tell me where she was applying/if she got in, and then when she did finally get in; she decides to bullshit me like her uncle just died to break up but hopes we can be friends. A week later, she moves to her new school.
Needless to say; she and I are not friends.
I will never understand why so many people don't feel like they can just tell me stuff. If she was totally straight up with me, and just said "hey [name], I really appreciate our time together, but I just don't feel like I can handle school and a relationship," I would totally understand and go about my day.
I was in an emotionally and physically abusive relationship. I eventually built up the strength and courage to end it. I walked away with nothing but the clothes on my back.
It was a struggle to rebuild my life with nothing. But the struggle was nothing compared to battling to get through every day of abuse at his hands when I was with him.
He did not trust me and I was not happy.
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It ended because of emotional disconnect
She wasn’t attracted to me in anyway from the beginning and had to force herself to feel anything for me.
Would have saved us both 6 months if she had just been honest about that early on. Instead of not saying anything, there were other issues besides that but that was the main one.
He went through my phone and found messages to guy friends. He accused me of cheating and had sex with an escort. I kicked him out and moved on
Well this happened 13 years ago, but it ended because she cheated on me during my deployment. She ended up pregnant, now she’s struggling while I’m living a good life w my current girl going on 12 years.
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we had very different plans for the future...
Lose interest. In the person after a long time
She passed away… 😥
I don’t think there was any other way it could have ended with how perfect she seemed to be for me, yet here we are. (Or rather here I am…)She used me as a rebound so.. you know the drill..
My idiosyncrasies. I'm a great friend but I am a difficult person to date long term.
Boyfriend was. A player we both decided to. Stay friends
Its that long ago, but I just grew apart and didn't see a long term relationship developing
I wanted to get married and he didn't.
Because the mini-bitch cheated on me!!
I decided to keep going with my girlfriend
We didn't have the same life paths
She was toxic and cheated too
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My last relationship is still going on.
We grew apart. It was an amicable parting.
He cheated 😶
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