Should men get tested for infidelity?

[Anonymous]

Before getting intimate with your partner, should your man get tested to see if he cheated?

[msc545]

There is no test for this, but - women can be tested:

https://www.amazon.com/Semen-Detection-Test-Strips-Infidelity/dp/B00152LYDY

[Asker]

Actually, there’s a thing called Forensic Infidelity DNA testing. It’s both for men and women

[Asker]

validitygenetics.com/dna-infidelity-testing

[msc545]

Have you checked the cost on this kind of stuff?

[msc545]

Not to mention the fact that for most items there will be a mixture of both male and female DNA or a mixture of the DNA of multiple people. None of whom you'll probably know and none of whom you can provide a reference sample for. In other words, you may get the results, but the results may not mean anything to you. Meanwhile, you've spent a ton of money and gotten no real satisfaction and no real answers. Read the literature from the company that does this stuff and read their disclaimers.

[Asker]

If that doesn’t work, there are plenty more.

[msc545]

Thanks for MHO you clearly do not understand the way this works or the science behind it. Apparently you think that getting an expensive test will provide the name of the person that was involved besides your spouse. Of course it won't.

[JonCobretti]

Almost everyone , man or woman is going to get TF out of the relationship if their partner does any form of testing , if someone has severe trust issues then don't get into a relationship , better for everyone

[Asker]

Does that go for men who want their partner to get a paternity test?

[JonCobretti]

Yes unless they are divorced and she is asking for child support and alimony

[ApplePie409]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/sPEC4yfvoCw

Women are the biggest cheaters, because opportunity is in their favor.

[DishLady]

Should everyone take a lie detector test before committing to a long term relationship?

[Asker]

I heard lie detector tests aren’t always accurate.

[AviatorTom]

Is this the next Elon Musk entrepreneurial idea? The X-DIC (that's for Did I Cheat) company would make a fortune on Cheating DNA kits.

[Asker]

There’s a website validitygenetics.com/dna-infidelity-testing

[DrPepper12]

YOU. ARE. A. GENIUS! ❤️ THAT!!

[DarkLegacy]

What a pathetic thing to come out with, you could never prove it. No guy should be with any woman that thinks this.

[Asker]

If y’all want paternity tests, women should get the infidelity tests in return. It’s only fair 🤷‍♀️

[PositiveNote]

I thin that test is in the dating process itself, no?

[LiamJHayden]

Not sure how that would work, but if there were a way I'd be for both to be tested. I do not cheat and do not want to be with one who does.

[Asker]

There’s infidelity tests validitygenetics. com/dna-infidelity-testing

[Asker]

validitygenetics. com/dna-infidelity-testing

[Asker]

Dang it! It’s not highlighted blue. But that’s the website

[DrPepper12]

Like a lie detector? No. An STD test? ABSO-FUCKIN-LUTELY

[Asker]

I don’t think lie detectors are actually accurate. But, yes. STD tests or one of those infidelity tests.

[DrPepper12]

Indirectly yes but not conclusively paternity

[Anonymous]

Tested? Is that like a DNA test or a urine test or what?

You do realize women your age cheat as much as men their ag, and women younger than you cheat more than men, right?

[Asker]

Either way, you can’t trust your partner. So why not get tested?

[Opinion Owner]

Tested for what? There is no "test" to determine whether someone is cheeting.

[Asker]

Oh, but there is. There are tests called Infidelity Tests.

[Fireguy17]

If there is a test for that both men and women should be tested.
Women cheat as well.

[Anonymous]

sure why not as long as paternity tests are mandatory

[Asker]

Sure. You can’t really trust your partner.

[Opinion Owner]

if it's mandatory, it wouldn't matter whether I trust them or not because it's gonna happen

even besides myself, it's also for the baby to know their parents and any potential grandparents to know who their grandkids are

[Asker]

Would you want your partner to get one even if you two are married?

[Opinion Owner]

the test will be mandatory so she'll have to get one regardless of whether I want one or not

[Asker]

Sounds fair. Because you may never know. To be honest, I think you should always have your guard up around your partner. Because there’s always that slight chance they’ll cheat.

[Opinion Owner]

whether or not they cheat, the current culture pushes heavily towards cheating and sooner or later I wouldn't be surprised many end up cheating and hiding their dirty secrets with them

women be out here praising a cheating man and calling him a ladies man/stud and feminists (both male and female) are trying to destigmatize slut shaming

[Asker]

So, if you were in a relationship, you would always assume your partner cheated? Even she went out to buy groceries by herself?

[Opinion Owner]

to the groceries? no

but if she dresses like a skank and returns home longer than she usually would for groceries and the amount of shopping items doesn't justify her time of absence then yeah, she definitely cheated

[genericname85]

no women should. cause women are statistically more likely to cheat before marriage.

[IslaTheWitch]

why only men? women cheat as well...

[Asker]

Men want women to do paternity tests. I say we should get something in return.

[IslaTheWitch]

but still... if you want to issue the test at the beginning of the relationship both genders should be treated equally... then paternity tests won't be needed

[Asker]

Actually, both partners should be tested in the beginning and years into their relationship.

[IslaTheWitch]

so now we need the meaningful test :D

[NathanDavis]

and, just how would this test work?

[Asker]

Infidelity DNA testing

[Asker]

And it should be mandatory.

[Asker]

And they have to be tested anytime they’re around women just be sure.

[NathanDavis]

do you mean to say that there is... an "unfaithful gene" or something?

[DarkLegacy]

@Peridot25 There is no such test available. Just a lousy attempt at being sexist to men. Grow up and get over it

[Asker]

Actually, there is. It’s called Forensic Infidelity Testing.

[NathanDavis]

are you born with these genes?

or is it that being unfaithful does change your genes? how does it work... ? lol

[Asker]

Your partner can actually get a testing done to see if they have cheated by doing a swab.

[NathanDavis]

a swab of what, when, how... who, where... lol

[Asker]

Of any kind of human DNA. It could be anything.

[Asker]

validitygenetics.com/dna-infidelity-testing

[Asker]

Look at this website

[stvigor]

We're not all infidels