Is it weird to tell a single mom that you want to go out with her and you're willing to pay for a babysitter?

[Anonymous]

[DishLady]

The pay for the sitter part is a little odd, but possibly a little sweet also. It would only work if she knows and trusts you already. Otherwise, start off with a few coffee dates while her kid (s) are with baby daddy or in school.

[Nikki1989]

Not at all. Whatever works for ya.

[KrakenAttackin]

Not "weird", but it is being a total simp.

Never play another man's saved game, bro.

[Asker]

Is this how you view single moms?

[Billlewis]

No, I think that's a wonderful gesture.

[Asker]

I agree. If I want her time and she is a parent why wouldn't I pay for her babysitter

[RebelinSteel]

Not really no,

[Asker]

Oh okay. I said verbatim maybe we could get some coffee sometime and I'll pay for a babysitter.

[Anonymous]

Nope.

[Asker]

Got it. I thought it sounded weird when I texted it to her. I said verbatim maybe we could get some coffee sometime and I'll pay for a babysitter

[jahaims]

Desperate af

[Asker]

How so? If I want her time and she has a toddler why wouldn't I pay for the babysitter?