Why do some users here want me to ignore my mother's rules when dating and my mother would ban me from dating if I violated her rules?

[CaitlinSims25]

If I go against my mum rules when it comes to dating and she banned me from dating or be in a relationship. I will be single forever if I go against my mum rules for me dating men or be in relationship is has to be with men with a moderate learning disability. Is was before was be any type of learning disabity but did change when i did disagree and talk to her but didn't end well and change to moderate learning disabity is only what i can date. Yep she goes out with me when social events and as of going with me when it comes to dating with guys that by the way i been going to more social events and my always going to be there and not matter what i do. The only apart when we did agree to disagree was about my last toxic exbf and my mum said toxic exbf could of changed but i said they can't change that fast if they were toxic and will be toxic after. going against my rules for dating is not what helping is for me. Why do some users here want me to ignore my mother's rules when dating and my mother would ban me from dating if I violated her rules?

[TommyMountainFigure]

It is clear when advising you, they did not know or fully understand your situation. Shame on them for that bad advice. Clearly your Mother knows your situation better than any of us, and yes, you will do well to do as she says!

[TommyMountainFigure]

Thank you for selecting my answer as MHO..

[andreasderjuengere]

If 'Mom' makes the rules - then one is too young for dating anyway :D

[CaitlinSims25]

have you looked at my age in here.

[andreasderjuengere]

Yes I did.
Which makes your ''mental age'' a little underdeveloped :)
Have you thought about growing up?
(this is an ''attack'' against your Mom - not against you...)
Did I miss a point?

[CaitlinSims25]

my mum is that is very much immature compare to me. she think that can't be trusted do thing that i want since i got a learning disability that i hate. if i didn't have it i would be better off without it. my mum refuse to listen and lie about and talk and argue.

[CaitlinSims25]

about me when comes dating men ,

[andreasderjuengere]

My view: a ''learning disability'' is not an excuse to allow to get bossed around by others.
It is of course good to listen to advise from others around.
Just take the pill - and enjoy life within your own possibilities.
Mom's care - that's for sure. But they also must allow us to make own decisions.

[CaitlinSims25]

my mum is stubborn and will banned me from dating i don't listen to her at all and my mum always be like this with me when comes dating men. about agruing a lot and always talk take advantage of and let lot men that did had learning disabilities some them did cheated on me and one that went toxic. yet still want me to only chose from moderate learning disabilities only. my mum was before could be any learning disabilities but when i did disagree and then my mum change the rules to be allow to date men with moderate disabilities. i don't have many other people that can talk my mum.