If you text the woman your man has been cheating with is she obligated to respond to you?

[graacceey]

[Finchie40]

Not at all , sadly she can choose whatever she wants to do , sadly, she might of not known he was already in a relationship with someone , he more than likely lied to her, and told her he was single , sadly this shit occurs more than we like to think it does from both guys’ amd girls’ that cheat. So In your situation , you are best to confront him and point fingers at him for being a piece of shit to you and best for you to dump his ass completely , the other girl was more than likely lied to by him, and had no clue he was in a relationship already. But No matter what really occurred? Your boyfriend is the one to blame for being a lying piece of shit. I have been in your shoes a handful of times with lying selfish girls’ that were cheating on their husbands and boyfriends with me , that told me they were single when really they weren’t. I usually find out the truth after I had sex with her , some of them played me for a few months before I found out the truth . So the person to blame , is your partner for lying to you. I had a husband show up on my doorstep to confront me about sleeping with his wife , I had no clue she was married , I dated her and had sex with her a bunch of times before her husband showed up. And I told him the truth about everything , he almost tried to fight me , and I told him why do you want
To fight me? Your wife is the POS liar. I had no clue she was married. Sadly this shit occurs a lot especially these days , why I no longer rush into a relationship with a girl , most girls’ I meet are selfish liars and I know most guys’ are selfish liars as well , so why it’s best to not rush anything with anyone , until they prove to you that they aren’t selfish and make you their top priority over everyone else , never fall for someone that treats you like a convenience, meaning they want space from you and don’t really include you in everything they do , those type of people are more than likely cheaters , they only care about themselves

[MisterWack]

No? The lady probably didn’t know he was married and just like everyone else who gets a text or email or voice message you have no obligation to that ‘stranger’ who contacted you.
You are obligated to just dump your boyfriend / take your husband to counseling to talk it over better with a professional on the subject.

[Caroline91]

I wouldn't be texting her. I would be addressing it with him and the outcome would not be in his favor. lol

[graacceey]

So I texted a girl and told her to stop texting my man only because I felt like she was looking for closure with my man. She didn’t know about me until two weeks ago. They have been talking and interacting for months. I found out through multiple messages that they had sex, she’s been to his home, they have gone on walks after work, They have gone on a breakfast date, they have kissed, he has told her he likes her and likes creating memories and moments with her, he was planning a “special” date for the two of them etc etc (They work together on a overnight shift/job) So all of this was happening

[graacceey]

after work in the morning and over texts. I found out all of this by going through his phone and so I texted her and told her that I was the girl he was currently living with and asked her to tell me what was going on with them. She never responded. So I texted her from my phone and asked the same thing, still no response. A week goes by, I heard nothing. Until this morning today, I saw a bunch of messages from her coming into his phone. She was texting my boyfriend again almost as if she wanted closure. It seemed as if she was giving him a response to a conversation they had earlier at work in person. She was saying things like she can’t and won’t keep talking to him, it was a nice experience, that she does like him but she claims she has “morals” and would feel guilty if she continued to talk and mess around with him. So,

[graacceey]

I’m assuming my boyfriend was still making advances at her. I think even after he knew she found out about me when I texted her the first time he continued to flirt and try to convince her to stay around, I know this because yesterday morning after work, my boyfriend invited her over his house to come and cuddle with him. This was in all in the messages she sent. That’s why she was saying she didn’t feel right about doing those things anymore because she claims that because she now knows about me that she’s not that kind of person that she wouldn’t participate in things like that and I also read in the text that she stopped kissing him, letting him hold her hand and touch her etc all the things they did together after work she put a pause to it but it seems as though my boyfriend didn’t let that stop him from pursuing her. So I politely texted her from my phone again and told her that since she didn’t want to respond to me, that she can stop texting my man. I don’t feel like I was wrong. She blocked me and him but that’s fine with me.

[Caroline91]

Not saying you're wrong, just saying what I would do.

[handsomelad70]

No, but she should.

[avery58]

@asker you should break up with him. He's the POS in this story.

[avery58]

Not only did he cheat on you, he also lied to her and played her. He's double the scumbag

[Fiercekittyyy]

Omg you still call him "boyfriend" why ddint u break up with him?

[dustybiker2]

Depending where you live, and unless under court order, nobody is required to do anything of the sort.

[AviatorTom]

Duh, no. No one is obligated to respond to any text. They can respond, or not, their choice.

[SugarSugarplum]

Any woman who will let your man cheat isn't concerned with social obligations. The only thing you should text her is:

Keep him.

[JonesT10Apr]

nice

[236color]

I don't think so. By the way, she may feel her boyfriend is cheating on her with you. Chicken and egg kind of thing. He's a cheating either way, no excuses, I'm just saying.

[AMS700CX4u2]

No, she is not obligated to answer. But it would be wise to pay attention. The quickest way to put an end to it is to threaten to expose her to her own husband.

[katiesmuff]

LOL Fuck NO she is not. What you really need to do is dump the dumb ass who is cheating on you!

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

No. I won't care about them in the first place, 'cause I'm already walking away.

[Dinklex3]

No, she’s not.

Speak to your man, not her.

[SotiCoto]

... Would you?
You think social obligations matter under the circumstances? People in general are obligated not to cheat, nor to enable others to do so.

[JacobJordan]

That isn't how speech works or texting or anything else. She can ignore you as well she should waste of time to respond

[RingOfFire]

I don't know maybe. I'm convinced that women have a secret code of conduct that men know nothing about.

[pethouse]

Oh you should definitely break up with him. You should of already broke up with him. And I’d say yeah she is a pod of she knew he was in a relationship.

[DrPepper12]

Now THAT is a question!! No, she's not. Take it up with her hubby not the paramour.

[MacDaddyRico]

She's cheating with your man, and you expect her to return your texts?
The only thing she's obligated to do is take an ass whoopin'

[Staximus]

She's not the one who cheated so only an idiot would do this instead of just leaving

[Anonymous]

She is a shit. Why do you expect a shit to give you a shit?

[Opinion Owner]

Don't text that shit girl who doesn't know values

[Opinion Owner]

Honour yourself by scolding her rudely and blocking her right after that

[Anonymous]

I'm using Google translate and speaking Korean. Also I didn't know he had a SO. Lies.

[DishLady]

No, why would she answer?

[BadApple69]

Negative. I would hope she wouldn’t.

[thatshydork]

No but I think she should.

[HelpfulWoman]

no, she's not obligated to respond

[Nikki1989]

No, not at all.

[CrabCakes11]

No. She can do whatever she wants.

[elizamichale1]

No not really... why would she be

[sheikalana]

No, she’s not.

[es20490446e]

I guess she would do whatever she wants?

[LiamJHayden]

Why would she be?

[RedInnocent69]

Fuck no! Why? Did you get texted?

[impalabill77]

No she is not obligated.

[kareka]

No why would she?
Its ur man's fault

[Anonymous]

Only if she has a deathwish

[laly520]

she isn't

[Iron_Man]

She should

[Anonymous]

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