Why I attract only mean people and not the good ones?

[Anonymous]

[Serkee]

You do attract the good ones too, you probably only notice the mean ones because they're the ones who tend to show their attraction.

[Asker]

No true, the good ones never approach me, on the other hand those who are crazy, yes

[Serkee]

@At3mis24 I'm not disagreeing with that, I agree that the good ones aren't approaching you. But that doesn't mean they're not attracted to you. They just don't approach women very often, since good guys tend to be self-conscious. And jerks tend to approach a lot of women all the time, so of course most people approaching you are gonna be jerks.

I think the best way to solve that problem would be for you to approach the guys you like, instead of expecting them to approach you. Because chances are they're attracted to you, they're just scared of rejection or of having you think they're creeps.

[Asker]

Oh, I'm scared of rejection too! I think I have no chance in this part of my life (but I'm lucky on others) and I just need to accept it.

[Serkee]

@At3mis24 You and me both.

[kareka]

What do u mean