Would you do long distance?

[kareenakapur]

I live in the middle of nowhere for school almost done soon but not sure where my career will take me. Any guy will have to do long distance to be with me. I don't know I've always been open to the idea all my exes were long distance but feel like its so hard to find a guy who wants that. Or I will find lots of guys from big cities will play me and be like oh I'm going to visit and dont and just use me. Would you do long distance and how do you make it work?

[HollyK21]

Why would any guy have to do long distance? Why not just wait until you figure out where your career will land you, then start dating locally?

[kareenakapur]

bc I might live in the middle of nowhere again. I still have more training. my field takes you. you dont get to pick. he can join me wherever I go or if I meet him now I can try to interview at places close to him. I'm a gem smart im soft, sweet, and im hot. Guys will try to do long distance but always end up in the end saying they can't do it. : ( I've been single for a year. Im lonely. I want someone and I'd be a good asss girlfriend

[HollyK21]

If your lonely, find ways to occupy your time because you’ve got to be most comfortable on your own first. This is coming from someone who chronically dated and had to force myself to take a real break, address my loneliness and be better on my own. I did that for about a year before meeting my now fiancé. As for the job, again, it does not sound like you know where you will land. Sure there is a chance you’d be in the middle of nowhere but that’s not a guarantee. You are almost done with school, maybe it’s better to focus on finishing that then see where life and life lands you in a few months. Even in the fall.

[HollyK21]

**life and love

[kareenakapur]

I know im trynna live with the loneliness ur right. im a chronic dater too keep getting my heart broke. :(

[kareenakapur]

can't do anything with my time only study :( I think thats what makes it harder

[HollyK21]

I’m sorry love. If you keep having your heart broken I think that’s even more incentive to be single for a while, so that you can not only recover but to figure out what you want in a man. You are about to start a whole new life, what sort of guy would you see being part of it? Work on figuring out answers to that. Then when you’re settled in your new city and know what kinda guy you want, you can find it.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Many don't want to deal with long distance cause it can bring many complications such as cheating and at that point it will be much harder to catch them cheating, that's of course just one of the many complications.

[DJB72]

My wife was in a different hemisphere. The flight to visit was 12 hours plus driving each end.

What's your idea of "long distance"?

[MatureMan40]

Yeah, if you like and think that person is good for you, why not? I did it and I would do it again, I don't see anyproblem if the person is not there just to use you...

[DarkOsiris]

I couldn't do it again. It sucks and the conversations will dry up quickly

[LiamS95]

I've tried it and honestly it's hard to do successfully keeping both partners happy.

[Zlantur2]

I used to years ago. It is hard but it's up to you both if it's gonna work.

[NathanDavis]

I very much prefer and need closeness

[TallAnon]

I honestly hate long distance, more and more so.

[Anonymous]

No. That'd be pointless.

[MisterWack]

Yes currently am

[sheikalana]

Never.

[In_Trance]

never

[eagle1951]

have twice