Girls, What is to gain from dating a guy your ashamed of?

[Anonymous]

So I just want to give context she was addicted to social media she had every platform and was practically glued to her phone. She would post everything outings with her friends, our dog her rabbit her family. I was the only person no where to be found on any of her social medias. Secondly when we would do a double date with our mutual friends she would speed up to walk with them leaving me. I called it out because there are glaring signs when someone feels ashamed of you. So I did the opposite she was on my social media I was proud of the relationship and I was especially happy to show her to my family in person and was excited when that happened.

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So many good opinions

[Anonymous]

Wow, that’s harsh shit sorry to hear it. I’m not sure if she was ashamed or just wants to appear single. Whatever the case though, someone like that isn’t worth your time or excess consideration.

[Asker]

She also had a locked notes section on her phone

[Opinion Owner]

That could be explained, she could have private things like passwords, notes, journaling, etc. I know I used to lock and keep my passwords in notes.

[Asker]

No this was something else because when we would login to stuff she let me see the screen and it was her logins to utilities and our insurance

[Asker]

The passwords was In a completely different note

[Woofwoof97]

For me? I had extremely low self esteem... Every time I looked in the mirror I saw a ugly monster undeserving of love and I attracted people who hated me. It was weird and pathetic. Had to start working on myself to get better people around me. If you sense somebody is ashamed of you they aren't worth it. Pretty sure the guy I was going to date was secretly embarrassed/ ashamed of me too because they couldn't do better. :/

[DishLady]

I’d never be around a guy I’m ashamed of….

[Asker]

Yeah i questioned why were together a lot cause how frequently this happened

[WhitneySnow]

It sounds like you were right to break up with her

[Asker]

She broke up with me

[Asker]

Yeah we were driving to the grocery store in my car and she was being verbally abusive and bullying me I ask her to stop and she keeps going so I pull safely over to the side of a side road and ask her to please get out. She walks home and calls her mom freaking out saying she can’t be with someone who kicks her out of their car ignoring how I kept politely asking her to stop