In what way was he opening his mouth?
We did have sex once and I am sure he told others on top of the fact that I did think he liked me in the end, so I think he was openly telling people we were dating with no title
Oh this is different. I meant purely platonic friendships.
I would still even then. Some guys get the wrong idea that them hanging out is a step closer to them two dating. Not saying that this is your situation, but I just typically don’t make male friendships happen anymore to save the drama and rumors
Well you just have to be upfront at the start I guess. We’ve had the conversation and I’m glad we did. But I would be genuinely sad if rumours put distance between us.
I was pretty much upfront lol I rejected sex from him pretty much every time after the first because I only saw him as a friend
Why did you have sex with him in the first place?
Because back then I had a problem with not being able to say no to guys. I was pretty young.
Oh right. So you didn’t actually want to have sex with him?
And he asked you for sex and you said yes?
When he asked to have sex I wasn’t entirely for it, but I tried it, wasn’t satisfied in the end and was actually grossed out I decided to have sec with him in the first place
Were you a virgin or something? Or very inexperienced sexually?
@asker I was not a virgin , and was not inexperienced sexually but I was very naive.
Oh right lol. I think it’s quite sad to let gossip ruin a good friendship though really. It’s no one else’s business what the nature of your friendship or relationship is.
That's for darn sure. Is this what happened to you?
No but I’m worried it might happen due to rife gossip just because we enjoy each other’s company as friends and like to do things 1 on 1 away from the circle. I just find it really sad to be honest.
I'd say the only way things would be ruined is if she didn't actually like you...
We’re friends. We both only see each other as friends.
So what are you worried about?
That she might find out about the gossip and distance herself from me.
I think you should talk to her about it. Like, "hey there's a rumor going around, I hope it doesn't separate us as friends" shed feel more comfortable... but what if she actually liked you😩
She doesn’t. I don’t want more than friendship with her as I worry that would ruin our friendship.
Well let her know just that.
I did like her before and we talked about it.
O yea? What she say about it that she doesn't like you back?
How can you be sure
Because she said she just wants to be friends so doesn’t want to date. So I lost interest in her that way after a while.
O I c... well I think you should talk to her before she finds out
About the gossip?
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