Guys, would you feel uncomfortable if you came to know that your girl follows hot men on social media?

[TadBehaya]

yes

no

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I don't think so although it's difficult to imagine since my wife and I don't use social media. That said, my wife is a big fan of Hugh Jackman!

She finds him very gentle and good-looking and enjoys watching many of his movies and also Broadway shows. I don't mind. I think he's good-looking too (in heterosexual way, like I think he's going to be popular with the ladies for sure).

I am a big fan of Rosamund Pike:

My wife knows too and we talk about that although she doesn't think Rosamund Pike is so pretty as I do. It's okay. We know we're going to be there for each other at the end of the day and both take our wedding vows very seriously.

Also when I meet very good-looking woman in person, I tell my wife like, "Wow, she was so pretty, don't you think?" Wife: "Yes, she's so pretty! I am jealous!" Me: "Maybe we can set her up with [insert one of our single friends who is very good-looking]."

[CoolCatMar1]

I agree with her she isn't that pretty in my opinion as well haha

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

@CoolCatMar1 Aww shucks! 😅T he thing that I find extremely attractive about her is that she's really well-spoken and seems so courteous in person even though she sometimes plays villains in films like Gone Girl. I really like women that seem like they can be amazing professors giving the most interesting lectures but also dress really well and eloquently navigate a formal business party, charming everyone with their conversations.

A couple of others I like very much the same way are Julianne Moore and Sigourney Weaver.


My friends also think I'm weird but maybe you can see the general kind of image/character I like so much if you imagine Sigourney Weaver as, say, a world-renown professor of Western history, giving graduate-level lectures about Sumerian culture, and having participated in archaeological excavations. Yet on top of that she can also put on a marvelous dress and attend the most formal of parties -- champagne and martinis -- and still charm every single person there with her courteous assertiveness, openness, sophistication, elegance, and knowledge of a wide variety of subjects.

I think that's about the most charming woman for my tastes.

[CoolCatMar1]

I see okay hehe

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

@CoolCatMar1 My wife also has a strong character pattern with the male celebrities she likes such as Hugh Jackman and Ewan McGregor. Both can play very tough guys but they also tend to play lots of softies. I think she likes that type of image of a gentleman who can be tough but also gentle and kind.

[CoolCatMar1]

Great hehe

[Anonymous]

yeah that's why i don't follow random semi naked girls on social media either, should be a fair game

[MrOracle]

It wouldn't bother me if she was passively looking at their pictures or whatever - we all enjoy looking at beautiful people.

If she's ENGAGING with them in any way, THAT would be a problem. It's even more a problem when women do this (though it's not acceptable for men either), because we all understand that it's way, WAY easier for a woman to attract a man with sex than it is for all but the top 1% men to attract a woman for sex. A woman who is a 5/10 can get a celebrity to bang her, while no guy who is a 5/10 (or even an 8/10) can get a celebrity woman to bang him.

[HawkPerception]

Not in the slightest. It's fine to admire aesthetics. As long as they aren't reaching out to anyone flirtatiously behind my back, then all is good. Just because you're in a relationship with someone doesn't mean you lose all attraction to the opposite sex other than the person you're with. I have a couple attractive girls that I follow, but have never reached out nor cared to reach out to them.

[mstbooblover]

Considering I'm often watching porn, and thus have an eye on other women, why should I be upset if my girlfriend did something similar? Actually, I may even like it, because we could be more free and honest with each other, and have more fun together in some way.

[DarkSpectrum811]

No as both sexes do it. If she’s leaving strange comments and flirting just means she is bored or not getting attention. Merely liking a picture is normal or liking someone who you find interesting if even the candy. Guys do the same exact thing with all these guys obsessed with attention seeking bimbos. Normal.

[Anonymous]

No, I am among the hot men she follows. I follow hot women too, her.

I was never jealous when a girlfriend followed or liked a guy's pictures. That would be too much. I remember when my ex called me insecure and jealous when I didn't want her to go out with a guy alone. But I wouldn't mind if she liked his pictures.

[NathanDavis]

nope...

they had "hot" friends in real life

if I were insecure and unsure of her like that... that would have been a greater issue

[pergamon300]

Personally yes. It's disrespectful, as it means she's obviously having a perv. I wouldn't be following or liking models or bikini photos of other girls on Instagram if I had a girlfriend.

[BardtheCaretaker]

How is it disrespectful to be a pervert? She is still human. As are you. They are just pictures.

[pergamon300]

@BardtheCaretaker That'd be the same logic as saying, ''if she cheats, she's human as she has urges, as are you.''
I personally think if you're in a relationship, you shouldn't be following other people of the opposite gender, just because you find them attractive, and perving and liking their pictures.

[RSav4013]

It wouldn't bother me unless it was over 90% of the people she follows

[Sonorous]

Only if they're following them just because they're hot. That would just be inviting the hypergamy lol.

[Tractorguy13]

It’s very hypocritical to say that they shouldn’t follow certain types of guys. We can look at swimsuit calendars so they should get their eye candy too. As long as they don’t act on it then it should be ok

[KostasKouvalis]

Nah, following is fine, as long she's not making comments about his body. Unless it's someone who has a mega following and I know will never respond

[BoopBoopBeep]

I don't typically date women on social media, period.

[sawno]

Not really, but I would ask her about it if she didn't before.

[handsomelad70]

I guess, but as long as I believe she isn't cheating, I think I could tolerate it, though we'd have to converse about her following lads on social media.

[jahaims]

Uncomfortable no, turned off that she is such a loser yeah

[he-takes-a-part]

If you the girls if you the same girl in profile. if it bothers me I'd rather fuck you all day a d relieve off my tension. Coz when such a meat is available no wasting time in civil issues.

[Mia230]

Some of them follow hot girls what would be the difference lol

[andreasderjuengere]

No one's hotter than me :D :D
I don't fear social media.

[Alex-Snow]

Not at all. Guys follow hot girls or look at porn especially when they masturbate

[genericname85]

no. if she's loyal and i get the sex i want, i'm fine xD

[SolitarySolace]

Not uncomfortable. Furious. It’s no different than cheating to me

[IvanBalboa]

If it's celebs no, random guys? That's suspicious, it would be weird if I saw my guy friends follow hot women if they are in relationships so I expect the same

[tierrlamé]

Nah she belongs to me in the end of the day anyways

[msc545]

No I would just be kind of sad knowing that she was that pathetic.

[Luckycharms12]

Don't care about social media I live in the real world

[Kingofkings1992]

I would never be in such a position because I’m too well scouted to be with a woman who’s pathetic enough to use instagram.

[Anonymous]

Nope. Wouldn't even think to check. Overthinking stupid shit like this is more of a chick thing

[DerekC321]

No, I'd ask her to compare us

[Dongie]

Burnt betrayal.

[clampfan101]

Sounds perfectly normal.

[TallAnon]

Sure, means she had good taste to choose me

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Like celebrities, then no I wouldn't.

[moneymagnet24]

Nope I don't take holes seriously

[FenixG45]

Only if she's making an ass of herself!

[IloveWinters]

Why should I be

[jjj101010]

Do u follow hot guys?

[Anonymous]

Like Zack Efron? They all do

[laly520]

dont think they do

[BarryLiverstone]

Nope

[Anonymous]

Huh?

[TadBehaya]

well aren't you a pussy? you blocked me yet you are shitting on my questions as an anonymous idiot