Girls; how would you feel if your male partner followed lots of women on social media- models etc?

[Anonymous]

Just wondering how you would feel and if it’s a red flag? A guy I know follows lots of models and women he used to be ‘friends’ with online…even his friends ex…seems weird to me. Why would a guy need to do that if he was married?

[Anonymous]

Well, he’d have to either make a new profile or spend time deleting each woman. He could’ve followed them before this relationship and if that’s the case then as long as he’s not engaging with them I guess it’s fine.

[Asker]

What if he was talking to one as a ‘friend’?…

[Opinion Owner]

Are you the friend?

[Opinion Owner]

If you are then woman to woman, I’d tell you to step away from that situation. Already you seem invested more than a friend even just a bit, since you’re going through his follow list and noting that he follows several women. But unless his wife knows about your friendship, I’d say to have the same respect for her that you’d want another woman to have for your relationship, and minimize how often you speak. You just don’t wanna build bad karma or go down that road.

[Asker]

I’m actually a friend of his wife so I’ve been snooping for her

[Opinion Owner]

How’s that work? If you’re only looking at his friends list then wouldn’t she have the same access? Also, how could you know he’s talking to one of these women? Are they private convos or public? Again, I’d assume she has the same access that you do..

[Wise4myage]

He probably just likes the attention some of the women might be giving him, but it is weird that he follows one of his friends exe's.

[Asker]

It’s weird right? I wonder if his friend knows, surely he would think it’s not right

[Wise4myage]

If I had to guess, Id say his friend doesn't know.

[Anonymous]

No thank you.