Do you think I’ve been friendzoned?

[Santi7300]

If a girl isn’t shy around me and rather very outgoing when we first meet does that mean she doesn’t find me attractive and only sees me as a friend? I normally think that girls are only shy around a guy they like that’s why I ask am I wrong?

[Oliverlogan263]

It's definitely not a guarantee that she only sees you as a friend just cause she wasn't shy. Some girls are outgoing and comfortable around most guys, whether they think they're cute or not.

A couple other signs could help figure it out though:

- Does she make a lot of casual physical contact like touching your arm when she laughs? That shows comfort level.

- Does she ask you questions about dating and your type of girls? Could be feeling you out.

- Are your conversations just about surface stuff or does she open up about personal stuff too? Deeper talks are a good sign.

- Does she make an effort to hang out one on one or does she always invite other people? Alone time is important.

- How does she act around you compared to other dudes - flirty banter or just friendly?

You won't really know for sure unless you pull a move and see how she reacts! Next time you're together in a chill moment, see how she responds if you scoot a little closer or give her a little compliment. Her body language will tell you lots. Stay hopeful for now bro - she may surprise you!