Girls, Do girls not want gentlemen in relationships?

[Anonymous]

So basically because I wasn’t abusive like her ex i was boring

[Anonymous]

There's zero chance she told you that you are boring BECAUSE you were not abusive. You've convinced yourself of that so that you can complain about it. The abusive guy is gone because he was abusive and the boring guy can be gone because he's boring. It doesn't mean the situations need to be compared. That's just you twisting it so you can blame her and make her the bad guy.

[Asker]

Nope this is absolutely not true when she broke up with with she explicitly said because I didn’t have traits that he did that she couldn’t see herself with someone like me. But I also want to address the second part of your statement of blame her and make her the bad guy. She physically hit me, called me all kinds of horrible names, hit and beat on our dog. Even through that I was still there for her I was by her side when she caught Covid, by her side when she had a seizure in the middle of the night and when she woke up in the morning I was like we are going to to the hospital to get you evaluated. I bought her thoughtful gifts around the holidays, I took her on spontaneous dates she would come home and I would already have the arrangements made. I would buy her surprise tickets to her favorite concert. Her sister was on the verge of going homeless and I said she could stay in my apartment seeing though I wasn’t there and I also kept the refrigerator filled for her. I was never allowed to end the relationship due to abuse when I tried to just walk away her sister who moved in again with us threatened to kill me. She constantly made fun of my disability. Everything had to be her way or she would have a complete meltdown. At the end of our relationship she basically allowed the dogs In our apartment to poop and pee on the furniture. She even trained one to run to the restroom and go on the floor. Our furniture smelled like pee bad, and there was shit marks in the carpet it was a major health hazard I didn’t feel comfortable living like that so I wanted to crate the dogs while we were at work to avoid this but nope she had a full meltdown to her friends and everyone saying I was trying to get her evicted cause the dog would bark.

[Nikki1989]

I hope you are really not that stupid to actually believe this.

[Asker]

Well the only thing I have to go on is my experiences I don’t know if you read what I posted down below but that’s what I have to go on

[HelpfulWoman]

sounds like an incel making an excuse for being rejected.

[HelpfulWoman]

yawn. big ass paragraph of incel excuses again