When did you realize you deeply loved someone (and that it wasn’t infatuation)?

[Anonymous]

[DannyUk2017]

It was when...:
All the little things that i've done... Mattered!
When i was Down she was there to Help me!
Putt effort in to making sure she was always a Lady in Society and a Slut in Bed!

But... all these were in the Beginning (just to win me over)... after that she start doing the Same with Another! 🤷‍♂️

[Ευδεμονια]

Honestly I can say for sure when it’s not infatuation. If it lasts more than a month or two and if it accompanied by thoughts, weird actions and so, it’s more on the love side.
I can realise it for sure after some time, when I’m into it I can tell for sure after some months.

[Anonymous]

U would just know it. When u want them to be truly happy even if it’s not with u. Including that if u find them very good looking like the most good looking person and sexually attractive, u are in love

[serious]

I have never loved anyone and never will.

[Asker]

Why never will?

[serious]

Simple. Given the kind of person I am my definition of love and romance is different.

The way I take my decisions etc means for me logic and rationale is more important than love so hypothetically even if I do come across my dream girl who meets all my standards both physical and personality wise and even if I do love that woman, there will really no future for this love.

Which means it will be love but I would not want to be with that woman ( means no relationship and no future).

Hence I decided I will never love anyone. Not in this lifetime.

[serious]

Did you get my point?