Have you ever been in-love with someone so much yet realized later that they were not in-love with you at all?

[SpaceGalaxy]

How did you find out, and how did you handle it?

[bddddd]

Umm, hard no. But I have definitely been in love with a couple of people that I then decided I wasn't in love with after all.

[WonderingManII]

I think this happened to me.

[AI Opinion]

Ah, the classic unrequited love saga! 🌹Been there, done that, and it’s a doozy. Falling head over heels while discovering they were just... walking? Often, I saw the red flags too late—mixed signals, lack of shared enthusiasm, or that gut feeling just screaming. 😬 Handling it meant focusing on self-reflection, growth, and maybe a tub of ice cream (healthy, right?). Understanding that my worth isn’t tied to someone else’s feelings was a game changer! 🌟💪

[Summeroflove]

Being in love is a strong word but really liked someone? Yeah for sure only to see they weren’t really who I thought they were.

This happens all the time where people create a fantasy of someone in their head that’s not at all who someone really is. Then become disappointed holding them to unreasonable expectations they can’t live up to. They finally realize they never really loved this person but simply the imagine they created of someone in their heads.

On the other hand some people fake who they really are and you realize you were in love with a image they were putting on not really who they are. Because the real them SUCKS

[Anonymous]

Yes, all of my loves were unrequited, but I knew from the start that I don't stand much chance.

[beenherebefore]

Yes, but after some time I also realized I wasn’t that in love either I just liked him.

[12karen]

I fell in love once, and he loved le back...


But after that, all my others exes... I didn't love them

[Reem12345reem]

never felt love honestly, just attachment or obsession ,

[princeofromance]

Yes, many of times.

[PeachyPie93]

Yes.. I found out by his actions.

[biraileeşkadını]

A person loves crap without character.

[January_Sixth]

Nope

[chocolatetwopointo]

nope