When did you realize you love him/her?

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For me, it was when I was out and about by myself, and I kept thinking how it would be so much fun if he was around. Then I got him a little gift, which I knew he would love...and he did.

Just wondering :)

c_deyoung · Accepted Answer

when I saw her crying at her apartment after about a month of being with her (non official). too bad she cheated on me with her ex boyfriend. her loss. I am a good man (she left him after four months with him, and left me after almost a year.. what does that tell you?) but I had some control issues that couldve easily been pacified, but no, she had to take the easy way out and just confirm my trust issues by cheating on me with her ex.

we often talked about kids and getting married and hell we were gonna get engaged this Easter (we both wanted it, so it seemed). I wouldve taken the shirt off my back for that woman and even offered her my coat when it was raining multiple times. we even lived together, but she just doesn't know what she wants but one day she'll realize she f***** up and will come crawling back, especially after everything I and my family did for her (my parents picked her up EVERY NIGHT from work at 8:00 literally). I have enough confidence in myself to know that I'm a very good man who did nothing horribly wrong in the relationship - it was just her insecurities and lack of a self esteem that lead her to cheat.

i was always the one who tried to work things out, I was always the one who even FORGAVE HER for what she did to me (ie cheating) and wanted to try and work our issues out, but no... she thought I was "a piece of sh*t", "lame", "pathetic". I know a faithful and good woman is out there waiting for a man like me so its just up to fate to bring us together. maybe me and her are still meant to be, just not at this point in time... who knows. I still love her, and always will. hopefully it does, just not as the unfaithful liar that she was. I am still very much willing to make things work.

all in all... never fully trust somebody, cause you're bound to get hurt. I know I began ranting but... just never fully give somebody your 100% trust, no matter how in love you are.

TigerRoseBear · Accepted Answer

Late at night (or morning actually haha), at like 4:00 am I think. We were online dating (we didn't mean to, and we just started out as friends - we met on here - but then after like a couple weeks we realized we liked each other and after a while decided to have a relationship, as crazy as that sounds lol), and I had gotten used to staying up reeeeeeeeally late just chatting with her about anything and everything even though I had school. Yep, I got pretty damn sleep-deprived, and I still am because I've gotten used to staying up late. Anyway, I had gotten used to chatting with her late at night, and one night, I was really, really tired, and couldn't really think. All I did was lay on my bed, with my hands on my keyboard, tired but not wanting to sleep. And we weren't talking. But I felt so amazing, just knowing that on her side of the chat, she was sitting there at her computer talking to me, and just knowing she was there with me made me feel unbelievably great, and that's when I realized I loved her.

Now I'm devastated because she's away right now and I miss her like crazy D:. It's only been a few days, too, but still I miss her so much and I can barely handle it. :(

rudybooty · Accepted Answer

1.Well my first was when I had to work late and hated being on the road at nights by myself and he even though he doesn't drive and lived like an hour and a half away...he got on a bus and came for me!

2. I'm a person who HATES using cellphones and hated people who talked on it for hours. However I remember one night we talked on the phone for about 4 hours straight, he had work the morning and I had school and neither one of us wanted to come off so we decided to fall asleep with the phones on. But during that time we kept talking on and on and never once ran out of stuff to say.

3. He knew stuff about me, that I didn't even know about myself...like my different body languages for different moods. Certain words I would say which reflects ma mood. My different personality types and so forth.

Been together for a year & 6 months now and yes we've had more downs than ups but even the smallest of things he does sometimes reminds me everyday why I love him.

barbados · Accepted Answer

It was the day my grandpa died. I hadn’t much contact with him those last years and I took it pretty calm at first. My ex boyfriend came over… I remember that I didn’t say anything about it because we had plans and I didn’t want to ruin the evening.

I went to the bathroom to get ready and just started crying. I don’t cry easily. Even my mother says that I cried really rarely as a kid. And I hate to cry in front of people.

Because it took me so long my ex came in and saw me. He didn’t say anything; he just sat with me on the floor and held me really tight while I cried. I’ll never forget that. He was just there without questions and gave me exactly what I needed- let me cry my tear and hold me while I do so. And it was okay that he saw me like this. I felt his love for me and I realized how much I loved him.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

We crushed on each other hard in high school. One day I was leaving the gym and he was going to it. He ALWAYS had to touch me whenever he came within arms' length. He has long arms too, so he could just get away with picking on me all the time. He messed with my hair or some other teenage boy flirty thing, and when I tried to chase him he took off like a human rocket. I was kind of sad that he didn't let me catch him, especially since I knew he wanted me to...in hindsight, that's when I knew.

Emsyphine · Answer

For me, suddenly I could see the world from a different perspective. I know it is platitudinous, but my eyes had honestly opened to beauty and interpretation. I could relate to beauty, when I listen to Tristan und Isolde I understand it now, I can feel the longing of the chords, the tension and urge of beauty, lust, mania; it was the same strong emotions that Wagner felt to create his music that I related to. Every sense of responsibility and care for such tedious things completely disappeared and I felt enlightened somehow. This lack of responsibilities was so uplifting, so destructive to practical life yet love instigated a new outlook on life, a hope, something that some will dedicate their life to achieving. It was all because I had fallen in love, that's when I knew.

lisa_username · Answer

I know its kinda cliche but the first time we spoke I knew he was the one. but I knew I was in love with him the day I hung out with him and a group of my friends and he had to leave... a rush of emotion came over me ..i even felt all teary eyed because I had never felt like this before about anyone...he was just going to work but that didn't matter I wanted him close to me always.

Anijo13 · Answer

I think I realized I loved him at two different points. The first was before we were actually dating when I introduced him to my new potential boyfriend. The guy I was thinking of dating was being really touchy and driving me crazy so the guy I am with now "jokingly" shot a pool ball off the pool table as a warning.

Then I realized after we were dating when we cuddled in my basement and talked for hours about everything and anything. I knew since I was so comfortable around him that yeah he is definitely the one for me.

stevo · Answer

Probably when she paid the utmost attention to me and was more than kind to me after I had dealt with a really rough situation in my life. I couldn't have asked for better. I haven't seen her in nearly 10 years, and the feelings that I have towards her will never fade away.

htse7en · Answer

the first time she was gone for a few weeks . And I missed her... like passively unaware state and when someone said she was back I ran like a couple of floors ... that's when it me

halfalls · Answer

i think when you can be yourself completely around the other person, and you don't feel like you have to hide anything.

Milesdavis2998 · Answer

Get into a knock down bare knuckle beatdown, argue, swear and look at the other person with anger and spitefullness...  If you still feel like you love that person after all that, you've got a keeper.

2cleverbyhalf · Answer

I think it was when she stole my car and guns in a summer dress and heels, got it stuck by the river, called me to come "rescue" her.  Then she shot and cooked supper over an open fire.

susanalafuerte · Answer

The instant I saw her.   She was stepping out of another world.    So different!

luluu · Answer

The first time I saw him , it was at  the hospital , he had a fight with his  best  friend because of me :'( .

Anonymous · Answer

When he told the best moment in his life was.."right now, talking to you"  even if it was bs I loved him for that

Anonymous · Answer

I realized I love him when he just showed up from no where and hug me and we were just standing there hugging  each other and he is taller than me and I could hear his heart beating really fast and he say I Love You that's when I realized I love him and trust him and want to be with him forever not matter what happens

RandomGuy007 · Answer

when I started asking questions on GAG about the things she does and what they mean

Anonymous · Answer

there wasn't an exact time or day, it just sorta happened over time

SlickRicky · Answer

when she ordered a chocolate milk shake while out at a restaurant

cornflake420 · Answer

after we had been dating for about 4 months :)

flozz · Answer

When he left me for his ex

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