I’m hooking up with a guy that has a girlfriend how do I get him to break up with his girl and be with me?

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I really like him

on_my_knees · Accepted Answer

If you wish to ensnare this taken heart, a strategic web of desire and torment must be woven. Let me suggest a few persuasive tactics:

Chastity Cage: Present him with a gleaming metal chastity cage, explaining that true devotion lies in denying himself the pleasure of sexual touch without your permission.

Collar and Leash: Gift him a collar adorned with a shimmering tag, "Property of [Thy Name Here]." In public, lead him by the leash, making it clear who truly holds the key.

Nipple Clamps and Clothespins: Introduce a night of sensory play, where nipple clamps become a symbol of his commitment. Restrain him and affix nipple clamps to his sensitive testicles. The more pain he endures, the more he'll yearn for the release only you can provide.

Humiliation: Arrange a public scene where he must clean your high heels with his tongue, while his girlfriend watches.

Psych Ward Play: Stage a roleplay where he's the patient and you are a sadistic nurse. His escape from the "ward" could only be through the arms of his new dominatrix.

Asphyxiation: Gently guide him into the world of breath play, making him understand that only under thy watchful gaze can he truly find air to breathe.

Persistence is the key. As the saying goes, "Rome was not built on a single flogging." With time, you will weaken his spirit and strengthen his dependence on you.

AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

You probably can't. You've already let him know that you are only interested in sex... by hooking up knowing he has a girlfriend. He has the best of both worlds, a girlfriend and a side chick, why would he change?

Booklover_90 · Accepted Answer

Find a single man instead. Why would you want to break up a relationship? Also, what you’re wanting to do will cause unnecessary drama. Why would you want that?

avery58 · Accepted Answer

Even in the slim chance that he breaks up with her to be with you, he'd definitely cheat on you too. That's a guarantee 👌

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I hate to break it to you, but that's probably not going to happen. The fact you're already sleeping with him before he broke up with her is all the proof he needs that he doesn't need to break up with her for you.

You've lost your leverage, I'm afraid.

DishLady · Answer

You’re enabling his cheating and now want him for yourself… and don’t think you’ll have to look over your shoulder daily to make sure he doesn’t end up cheating on YOU later on? Good luck with that.

spartan55 · Answer

Lol... wow you aren't very bright. You are also gross.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

If he breaks up with his girlfriend to be with you is it ok if he still hooks up with her?

Fireguy17 · Answer

He won't. You will hear all the excuses, until he gets caught with you or whomever else he is seeing. They you are history.

wiltingrosepetal · Answer

Study some love triangle infidelity romcoms and see how well this worked out for them ❤

Juxtapose · Answer

You're facilitating cheating and frankly that makes me think of you as a pretty shitty person.

bowenw · Answer

There's nothing you can do about it. He has to do it out of his own free will.

handsomelad70 · Answer

I don't know if that's advisable. What if he sees someone he likes better than you and drops you for his next broad?

ICanSmellTheCosmos · Answer

Surely you must understand that he'll repeat this same behavior with some "other woman" once he's with you?

Twalli · Answer

You can't, you're his side piece. He only uses you for sex, she's the girl he wants to date and be romantic with, you're a willing hole for his dick.

Anonymous · Answer

he won't because he's already got what he wants from you

RedInnocent69 · Answer

You don’t. You’re the side chick. Accept it or don’t do it.

Anonymous · Answer

You can't. If you can't deal with being with someone who's attached, then you better leave now... or your suffering will get worse. How about finding a guy who isn't attached?

LiamJHayden · Answer

If he dumps her to be with you, he'll dump you to be with the next one.

Peridot25 · Answer

Tell his girlfriend he’s been hooking up with you.

Pterodon · Answer

You can’t. You’re just a side piece

Anonymous · Answer

kind of shitty on your part

Dongie · Answer

Class act, huh?

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Let her know

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