How do I get my boyfriend to break up with me?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been together for approximately 3 years. We started as "buddies" and eventually got a little attached and started a relationship. He's a great guy but can be a real pain in the ass. As of recent I notice that I'm no longer interested in him emotionally or sexually. I tried every remedy that I could but realized that it was all worthless. I eventually told him that I'm no longer interested in him. He agreed to do everything in his power to make me fall in love with him again which didn't change anything. After a while he just got mad and said that I'm not going anywhere he refuse to break up with me just because I no longer want to be with me. I agreed to stay in the relationship with him but it pains me to know that it is a one side love. I feel guilty and lonely 90% of the time. We usually don't do much talking anymore just living together as roommates at this point but bond by a commitment of faithfulness. Help!!

[Anonymous]

You may not be able to, and even if you can, could take some time and is it really worth it? Just end it yourself (why do you want him to? Just so you don't have to be the "bad guy"?). Just say that you're very sorry, but it's not working for you anymore. You're not happy, (and he probably isn't either if you aren't), and it's best you go your separate ways.

[Asker]

I did told him, I wanted break up but he refuses to end the relationship and I am of the belief that if he ends it. Then we can move on peacefully.

[Opinion Owner]

Just don't give him a choice. So now you'll tell him "we are done" vs "I want to break up". Very direct and says you've made up your mind. And also not to contact you anymore (if that's what you want and he won't accept that).

[jobego]

lol if he refuses to break up just go see someone else
sucks you live together can you get him off the lease?

[Asker]

I really don't want it to reach to that point. I have thought that maybe that might be my last resort but that's just not the person I am. It's my house, so he basically moved in with me. Kick him out several times. He keeps coming back.

[jobego]

if you've kicked him out and he doesn't stay out, and you really want him out I would change the locks or call the cops if he's at your door

[Asker]

I changed the locks, I call the cops. He knows majority of them so they basically just brush me off as being crazy. I usually hear you're pretty lucky to have someone to love you, hold on.

[slatyb]

Why does he have to do it? End it yourself. Tell him you are moving out.

[IncognitoBandito]

Just cut off the affection and he'll take the hint.

[Asker]

Oh I did. He doesn't mind at least not to me. He just doesn't want me to be with anyone else.

[Avicenna]

Just break up with him

[Wise4myage]

Cut to the chase and just dump him.

[Iron_Man]

You don’t it just happens

[In_Trance]

smh... retarded

[Sketti2021]

You break up