I’m inlove with a guy that has a girlfriend. What should I do?

[Anonymous]

The guy is 10 years older than me and he has a girlfriend. They’re sharing the same home and has been in a relationship for 8 years. I dont know what i should do. Should i give up on him or should i continue flirting and hitting on him? I have a strong attraction to this man.

[MrtoddsWildRide]

Forget him. Even if you did manage to woo him away, she doesn't deserve that and you will be her when the next one comes along.

[Asker]

What if i only flirt with him and has this ”vibe” without actually sleeping with him or anything else

[MrtoddsWildRide]

It's still not okay. What if you were her? Would you want this?
Golden rule.

[Asker]

No but i have feelings for him and ita hard to resist. And he’s 28 years old its not like he would want a relationship with me who is 18 years old.

[MrtoddsWildRide]

LOL. You would be surprised how little age matters to a lot of men. What does matter is that he has a girlfriend.
Do yo own a car? If I really like it then by your logic I should be able to use it freely.

[Asker]

Really? Can guys still be attracted to someone 10 years younger? Like he’s 28 im 18

[FunkyMonkee]

Try looking for one that DOESN'T have a wife or girlfriend!! There's TONS of them around!!

[Asker]

No but i like just him, he's special

[Switch91]

Keep your mouth zipped. Don't say or do anything.
You could ruin people's lives fucking about like that.

[Asker]

Its not intentional. I like him, and i just want to flirt nothing else i swear. As long as i am just flirting its okay right? Im 18

[Wise4myage]

Give up and move on, you're never gonna be satisfied.

[Asker]

But i only want to flirt

[Wise4myage]

Don’t bother.

[lrina]

give up on him and move on.

[jahaims]

That isn't love. That is lust and infatuation

[In_Trance]

He's never going to leave her

[Oceanvibes090]

Move on and don't be a homewrecker

[Asker]

But what if i only flirt with him without doing more?

[Now_Here]

Leave him be.

[Asker]

But i have feelings for him. Should i act cold towards him or what?

[Now_Here]

Yes, sure you have feelings for him. But you need to understand that he's already with someone else. It's only going to create complications if you intervene.
Just stop talking to him. Explain if you want to but be mature enough to make sure that you end it for good.

[Asker]

He sometimes is my boxing trainer, i can't just avoid him, we train in the same place. But can’t i still flirt with him without actually doing more than that? Just have fun talking to him u know?

[Now_Here]

That's complicated. I adviced you to break contact with him so that it'd be easier for you get over him as you won't be seeing him any longer. But since he's your coach, just try your best to stay within control and not let it escalate.

[Asker]

Okay so not even “playful flirting”? Not in a aerous way

[Now_Here]

What would be the purpose of doing it anyway?

[Asker]

I get happy. My feelings for hin can be hidden but i want to interact with him in some way